Not a standard painter skill. Staining wood is a much more difficult task than painting. Pine is probably the worst wood to stain (it gets blotchy really easily). And you want a very non standard color.

My only advice is to buy some of the same pine your cabinets are made from and try various stains until you get the finish YOU want and can show to your finisher.

Are these existing cabinets? If you are thinking this will be a quick update, I don't think you will find it nearly as easy as you might expect.

That is going to be very expensive. It would be cheaper to paint them the color that you want than trying for a stain.

Pine should be treated with a pre-stain prior to staining to help reduce blotchiness. A very good idea to practice on pieces of similar pine. Some say the knots need to be sealed, others that staining and the finish will seal them - I don't know which is right so ask a good woodworker.