I think you can pick anything. I like brushed nickel so for me it wasn't a hard choice. I have brushed stainless appliances and faucet. My current pendant over the sink is chrome.

I have black metal accents in other things, so leaning towards that for the main ceiling lights.

Sink photo:

We joked about the size of our sink, being big enough for our GD to bathe in. She's 2, but the size of an average 5-6 year old. While she would fit, she'd get a hold of the pull down faucet and bathe the whole kitchen.

Plus lifting a 40lb plus wet toddler out would be risky.

She can almost clear the side of the tub when stepping out.

I like your blingy lights..I'd put some bling on the cabs too. Chrome...

I love your doorknobs and your light fixtures! You're kiddos are pretty darn cute, too! I would do the aged brass or the chrome.

Another vote for chrome or chrome mixed with another metal or glass. What is your granite? Love it!