Try SW Eider White.

I saw a beautiful palest gray-white from another suggestion called SW Shoji White.

I have repose gray throughout my house and it's a beautiful color but if light and airy is what you want I wouldn't go with it. Repose is somewhat light but definitely not a barely grey white it sounds like you're looking for. It's a very obvious medium light grey. On the rocks has the same lrv (light reflective value) as repose gray so it'd be similar in darkness.

Here is repose grey. Beautiful color and with my downstairs having low natural light it's the darkest grey I would go with. I had dorian grey before this color which is two shades darker on the color strip and it was way too dark, very drab and depressing.

Did you use Crushed Ice or On the Rocks?

@Michelle Lord - not sure who you are asking, but we ended up with a discontinued SW Icy Avalanche and did our entire house in it. We love it! It’s very light and airy, has a grey/brown feel to it, but hardly any brown.

I crossed off crushed ice in the end because it leaned pink. And On the Rocks I still really liked but was a little darker of a grey