For over a kitchen table, we generally recommend taking the diameter of the table and subtracting 12 to find an ideal max diameter for a light over it. In your case, 60-12=48, so the chandelier you love comes in just below the max. Plus, it has an airy design as you said, so it should not look too 'heavy'.

For the island pendants, you basically do the same thing, subtract 12 from the width of the island. In your case 74-12=62, so the pendants will be perfectly fine.

Plus, it's your home--you should have lighting you love in it! Since you said you've done a lot of searching and haven't found anything else you like, these are clearly the right lights for you.

(This sizing advice comes from our guide to light sizing!)

Thank you!