So I chose a Sherwin Williams Cityscape gray to pair up with following colors. Little did I know it was going to be extremely hard to match a window valance to any of this. I chose a Pottery Barn Jute rug that has neutral tones... tan and gray that looks ok on the floor however I think my biggest mistake was thinking that any of this would look nice with these awful contractor grade honey oak colored cabinets. Any suggestions on how to fix this and what I can do to bring it all together? I love a rustic farmhouse kind of look with a hint of modern. The napkins have lighter and darker tones of gray which is what I matched the paint with along with tan, cream and a golden tone paisley. I'm up for any suggestions and can even switch up the linens if recommended. Thanks so much!!!!!