Can you post a pic of the backsplash and counters?

I might look at BM Shaker Beige, Hillsborough Beige

Thanks for all the suggestions! I will look into them. I definetly have found that I like warmer colors. Here is the closest pics of the counter/backsplash I have. The color on the wall by the backsplash is a sample of SW Loggia. I tried SW Serene Tan tonight, it was a little dark and pinkish.

try some of the lighter ones I posted and see if those work for you. stay away from the taupe colors, as those have that 'pink' tone to them. u want something in the tan/yellow end of the spectrum.

Thanks Beth H. I really like your suggestions and advice. I think I may try the macadamia color tomorrow. Behr and sherwin williams are the most convenient paints for me to get.

Have behr do a color match for Pale Oak (or any of the other BM colors you like) and take a sample home w/you. (they can bring up the formulas in their machine. I've had them do BM colors on a few occasions).