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How to soften up our bed?

8 years ago
last modified: 8 years ago

My husband doesn't want to get a new bed. I want a new one that has rails because I hate bedskirts! It's also too high any more for me. I haven't really decorated the rest of the room yet because of this "disagreement." Given that the bed will stay, if anyone has any ideas on how to soften this bed (and room) I would greatly appreciate it. I like this color duvet cover but seeing the box spring is awful. The house is only three years old so painting the walls is out, plus I like the color. And window treatments are out becuase I adore our custom trim and love looking at it every day. Thanks!






Comments (22)

  • 8 years ago
    Do you need the box spring? A high quality mattress on slats or a bunkie board would lower the bed and eliminate the bedskirt.
    Lee Baer thanked jmm1837
  • 8 years ago
    If you put a cover on the box spring that is the same shade as the bed frame it will visually blend right in and make it seem more like the bed is floating. You could also try some accent pillows in order to draw the eye up and away from the bed base
    Lee Baer thanked Robin Grundy
  • 8 years ago
    I always buy a duvet cover (and insert) one size larger than my bed frame, I think it would really help give you the look you want.
    Lee Baer thanked Hutchae84 Zone 8b/PNW
  • 8 years ago

    A larger duvet and insert could hide the box spring. Full/Queen bed - king duvet and insert. If you are unable to get another in this pattern, you could have fabric added on three sides to cover the boxspring.

    Lee Baer thanked tqtqtbw
  • 8 years ago
    Box spring cover or bedspread instead of too short duvet.
    Lee Baer thanked User
  • 8 years ago
    last modified: 8 years ago

    I sense a very Egyptian feeling to the style of your bed. I suggest you use very simple tailored Egyptian cotton bedding and then surround the head of the bed with softening drapery. Pick up some rug colors for the drapery and a throw. If you have other rugs, you might try changing that out to go in a new color direction. A new pair of lamps that aren't metal could be a softening touch.

    Rustic Bedroom · More Info

    For fun you might take the Egyptian theme even further...

    EGYPTIAN BEDROOM · More Info

    Lee Baer thanked decoenthusiaste
  • 8 years ago
    last modified: 8 years ago

    To coordinate with your paint color, not sure of the size needed. You need a comforter/ duvet that drops like this.

    Duvet Cover 6-Piece Sheet Set, Dolce Mela La Palma Bedding · More Info

    Lee Baer thanked tqtqtbw
  • 8 years ago
    Get a low profile boxspring and your bed will be lower with very little expense. The bedding will also easily hide it. One problem solved!
    Lee Baer thanked Gretchen Amirault
  • 8 years ago

    You could just get rid of the bed and get a bed frame. The legs come in different heights now because of the increased height of mattresses.

    Lee Baer thanked houssaon
  • 8 years ago
    I love the trim work, wall color and rug.
    Lee Baer thanked J J
  • PRO
    8 years ago

    A compromise might be to keep the headboard and attach it to standard bed rail support.

    Lee Baer thanked BeverlyFLADeziner
  • 8 years ago
    last modified: 8 years ago

    I agree about the boxspring. My bed was too high as the boxspring was 9". We just purchased a 5" boxspring and what a difference.

    The 5" boxspring will lower your mattress...thus, you will be able to cover the boxspring with your existing duvet.

    Lee Baer thanked shirlpp
  • 8 years ago
    Hmm, I agree with you ... I would change the bedding in ALL white and cover the boxspring with a fitted sheet and with the duvet ..., since the bed is very masculine in appearance you also have to soften the painting behind ...go lighter ..this painting is not working here ...then you need some flowing white drapes and all will look softer ..
    Lee Baer thanked silviakunst
  • 8 years ago
    last modified: 8 years ago

    you can do better than a fitted sheet on the boxspring... it looks like a sheet. you can wrap the boxspring in anything, including a king size matelasse bedspread... it can look rich and elegant.

    (you could even use your current way too small duvet cover)

    Lee Baer thanked Judy Mishkin
  • 8 years ago
    To Decoenthusiaste , Love your Egyptian theme !!! Love the dark ceiling ...Great mood !!!!
    Lee Baer thanked silviakunst
  • 8 years ago

    Almost looks like the night sky with moon, huh, silviakunst?

  • PRO
    8 years ago
    Interesting room with some interesting details and furniture. I think a number of people have offered solutions to the box spring (although I would do away with it completely). With the black lacquer of the bed and the colour on the walls (and the wardrobe) it feels quite Art Deco in style to me. I would change the rug and change the picture behind the bed. I would add some soft furnishing to the bed - a blanket/throw and scatter cushions to soften the room too! Maybe a rug like this and some cool reproduction prints?
    Lee Baer thanked Embellish Interiors
  • 8 years ago
    I really like the first picture posted by decoenthusiast. I was thinking all white wedding and a white cover for the box spring. I like the rug, wall color and trim. I don't care for the painting with the heavy, gold frame and the nightstands.
    Lee Baer thanked Val B
  • 8 years ago
    last modified: 8 years ago

    Looks like you have some great problem solving advice, I just wanted to comment on how lovely your room is. I do like the painting over your bed, so if you decide not to use it there, do use it somewhere in your house!

    Lee Baer thanked redoredone
  • 8 years ago

    I also agree to get a lower box spring. Amazon will have them in different heights for under $200 and it will get to you in a day or two. They come in a small box and unfold to bed size. It is quite ingenious. This is the one I bought to replace a regular box spring.

    I would also say to get a quilt or coverlet and keep the duvet folded in thirds at the bottom of the bed. Layering is key.

    Lee Baer thanked User