We are trying to paint our living room. We wanted a pale neutral color, with a slight gray color with White trim. We tried a few Benjamin Moore pale whites with gray tones. American White, Calm, and a few others and they seemed to barely show. Almost everything looked invisible. Finally based on board we chose BM gray tint. 2 coats went up on walls and we walked in and saw a strong baby blue with a slight purple tint. It looks nothing like the board until you hold the board next to it! Somehow it turned totally blue. We tried it in a southern facing room and it was so slightly a silver gray color. Very pretty. Then we tried to cover the Gary’s Tint with Stonington Gray 50% which paint store said would tone it down and not look blue. You can barely see a difference except it’s very slightly more green! We tried American white on a board and held it in there and again on a board at night it looks pretty, very slightly gray. But washes totally out during day to almost invisible. Nothing is right! We went through dozens of grays and white that look gray. They’re either invisible or blue. The only explanation we could find is that we must have northern exposure which makes everything gray into a blue. We want a PALE pretty gray. Not beige. Not blue. Not green. Next to BM white trim. Cool, fresh, neutral. Err on the side of cool. Please help!!