What material is on the exterior?

It’s red cedar

If you want a high contrast keep the stain in the red family, low contrast try mossy green, greenish grey but tones that work with roof color. Honestly hiring a designer to give the porch more emphasis and replacing the window with over under slide might make a world of difference.....but what you have now , with the updated awning looks rather nice, just a bit tired.

I think you may want to enlist the help of an architect or designer who specializes in exterior design to advise you. I’d definitely remove the awning and update the house with a deeper colored stain. I only came up with a couple of examples, but they give you a sense of how a combination of gray and cedar could look very handsome on your home. I’d also like to suggest that a portico, in a simple style, wide and creating a focal point of your front entry, would add presence and needed dimension.

I would paint a bone color and take off that canopy. Maybe change the landscaping.

Some of the round bushes should come out (maybe moved) and replaced with other plants of various height and texture.

A more contemporary version of this portico would work.

Or something like this:

I like all of the colors that BeverlyFLADeziner recommended. I have not had luck with BM opaque stain. I painted a cedar pergola and within a couple of years had to repaint it.