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photos need to be jpegs, not too huge, and one or two at a time. wait for them to turn from grayed-out to regular color before clicking submit.

Yeah - we can't help you without pictures, but you know that and I'm sure you're working on it. Also, check out the New to Kitchens thread. It has a ton of useful information.

I think a full (white) backsplash would look much better with your soapstone, highlighting its beauty much better than the short (dark) backsplash does. It would also brighten up your space since the floor you are choosing is dark as well. Your lights, hardware, paint can add interest. Wood floor could be a consideration as well, classically beautiful with soapstone :)

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I don't think I have seen a four-inch backsplash made from a different material than the counter in a kitchen.

Here is what I think: I am not a fan of the four-inch, however, this does not look terrible.

You are very stressed about having to do a renovation due to water damage.

I would leave it for now. It is functional and you don't need to make a decision right now.

Give yourself permission to put the BS on a "back burner." Finish up the kitchen then revisit.

Agree to wait on backsplash. Better to wait and be sure, than regret.

I personally am not a fan of 4, 6, or even al the way up to the bottom of the cabinet backsplash, regardless of how nice the backsplash may be.

I much prefer one whole back wall. :)

They are all beautiful. I always erred on the side of caution hearing in my brain "the more individual you make it the faster you tire of it". Also those choices will date the room fastest. Perhaps you can infuse the pizzaz you crave in less permanent items i.e. curtains/towels etc.

Oh gosh, I agree with you, that should come out. The good news is that removing it won’t be a problem, and you have a gorgeous counter.

If you want a 4” bs I would recommend it be a soapstone bs, but you can easily go with tile - different tile. Do you have any inspiration images?