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Please Help ASAP with Decision...

12 years ago
Hi, we just put in new Crema Bordeaux granite countertops. I picked out the granite and my husband picked out a subway tile backsplash. The tile guy came this morning to put it in but 1/4 of the way through the jib I asked him to stop because I think it looks terrible. I REALLY need opinions...it still has to be grouted but my husband likes it. I think it's WAY too busy and takes away fromthe beauty of the granite. Please give me your thoughts because we have to either give him the go-ahead or pick out a new tile right away.
Thanks (again) so much!
Lorri

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  • 12 years ago
    Great job loricav .. it looks great!!!
  • 12 years ago
    You are right way too busy
  • 12 years ago
    All of the comments made so late in the thread about the initial tile choice are just indicative of today's society where people can't be bothered to put in the time to read and follow a conversation w/o interrupting...
    While the train of thought was not always clear--what was clear was the the OP made an immediate choice to stop that horrible tile choice. So anyone responding as those that choice still needed to be prevented is like the waitress who interrupts your flow of conversation at dinner to ask some innate question...you just want to say "leave us alone to our discussion..."
  • 12 years ago
    Congratulations on the finished product. It looks beautiful.
  • 12 years ago
    Like so many design issues, your question comes down to a matter of taste. Your taste, your husband's and everyone else's are different. The choice of materials in the photo delivers three design characteristics that may appeal to some people and not others. 1. There is a large assortment of colors from the wood to the hues in the granite to the many colors of the tile 2. There is very high contrast in the colors and 3. the size of color elements is very small. Collectively, these aspects of the design create a feeling that any observer may or may not feel comfortable with.

    I've attached a photo of a similar kitchen that has a smaller number of variations in color and contrast but still with a fine grained color pattern scheme. Try the "optometrist test" with this picture and yours to see which you and your husband prefer. That will give you a sense of how much the color palate and contrast aspects of your design impact your feelings.

    Similar comparison could be made between your picture and others that use larger tiles (perhaps of a single color such as white, stainless or an earth hue) rather than the matchstick that you have chosen. The larger tiles are less busy and the single color reduces the contrast and energy that your picture contains.

    Again, it's a matter of taste. If you like salad and your husband likes Chinese, maybe you can compromise on Italian. :-)

    I hope that helps.
  • 12 years ago
    Bwest...thanks but you're a bit behind...my dilemma is no longer one and if you scroll many messages up you will see my finished kitchen.
    Here it is:
  • PRO
    12 years ago
    I can't beleive how many people just don't read!
  • 12 years ago
    Don't know if we want you to change the title. This is very entertaining. Not only busy but can't be bothered to sit down and smell the roses!
  • 12 years ago
    I should say people are not necessarily busy but can't slow down to smell the roses.
  • PRO
    12 years ago
    tumbled stone 6x6 . keep it simple.
  • 12 years ago
    LOLOLOL
  • 12 years ago
    Without going into details, lets just say we just had a similar experience. We ended up with a more subtle backsplash. Was the best idea! Therefore when entering the room, the beautiful counters stood out. It is beautiful and we are very glad we did it! Otherwise it is all too busy and your eye just wonders and you see nothing.
  • 12 years ago
    Under cabinet lights would look great. Should be done before the backsplash is completed. Can purchase at home depot.
  • PRO
    12 years ago
    I agree with the rest. These tiles are busy and clash with the granite counter tops. Neutral simple tiles that picks up the colors of the counter top will beautiful. You want your whole kitchen to have harmony. Right now these tiles compete with the counters.
  • 12 years ago
    Please read the thread
  • 12 years ago
    I've grown attached to this thread and will continue to read. I'm at the beach so this is literally my beach read. But I'm feeling like another project. I've grown attached to loricav, Ann , bevbelu (sp?). Stuart Mac and a few others who r also following this one. Any other projects out there that u guys are working on?
  • 12 years ago
    Hi Ginny...not yet, but I can create one to keep us all entertained. LOL. Enjoy the beach!
  • 12 years ago
    Hi Ginny, Don't be too hasty, I like it! I would add some accessories for the counter top that have more of the granite color. It's not what everyone else has but to me that's a good thing!
  • 12 years ago
    Love the horses. Great choice! And I also love the way you framed it.
    Lorri Cavaliere thanked mkmort
  • 12 years ago
    Dear lorricav,
    I saw your post yesterday and checked back to see what was going on! I just read the whole thread!!!!!! You did a beautiful job! Your kitchen is amazing!
    I now have a headache and need a glass of wine!
    Congratulations !!!! :-)
    Lorri Cavaliere thanked Faye McGriff
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  • 12 years ago
    This thread beats Facebook any day! Lorri, you must give us a glimpse of and our help (?) on a new project now!
  • 12 years ago
    For what it's worth the backsplash is too busy! Your countertops are basically same colors as mine and so are your cabinets. I've been debating what kind of backsplash to use and thus is what I've chosen! I have nickel hardware also. If I don't go with this I'm going with the copper panels you get at lowes but this pic is my first choice .
  • 12 years ago
    LOL! Lori-great job with everything. You are very patient to deal with all the crazy "help" you are still receiving. You should also give your husband a nice dinner in that lovely kitchen now. He is very patient to have dealt with all the decision making. LOVE the focal point of the horse tile picture. Enjoy!
  • 12 years ago
    OK so while I enjoy this thread and won't leave til its closed....our help is needed elsewhere. The discussion is called "Need serious help with this crazy fabric in our new house". I think this is the link http://houzz.com/discussions/616965. Its a living room with a hideous fabric on the walls, windows and even the sofa! The room could give you seizures. Well it started off with everyone giving suggestions on how to get rid of it. Now a couple of pros have convinced her its beautiful. Help her !!! A little of this fabric would be pretty....a lot of it hurts my eyes. Anyone in?
  • 12 years ago
    Ginnyr-I am in. Just posted on her fabric dilemma and her kitchen redo. Link to kitchen thread: https://www.houzz.com/discussions/how-do-i-update-this-kitchen-dsvw-vd~616990
  • 12 years ago
    The finished job is beautiful!
  • 12 years ago
    Holly- are you telling me that country kitchen is in the same house as the Chinese fabric covered walls, windows and sofa?!? Is there a design ER on houzz. I can't wait to see how that ends....wonder what the
    decorators who love the fabric are gunna say about the kitchen. This woman has her work cut out for her.
  • 12 years ago
    Just read this whole thread and I think what you ended up doing with the horses over your stove is just perfect. Beautiful job!
  • 12 years ago
    Ginny-yes the yellow retro kitchen is in the same house. The link I posted is from the same poster as this thread and somewhere she mentions that. It is also mentioned that she should try to tie together both designs. I agree that will be a challenge both decorating and money wise.
  • 12 years ago
    Helloooooooo People!!!!! The backsplash has been rejected and a new one installed!!!!! No need to suggest anything anymore!!! Yooohooooooo!!!!!
  • 12 years ago
    The saga continues! Will see if Marilyn's post works. Right Ann!!
    Lorri Cavaliere thanked bevballew
  • PRO
    12 years ago
    Glad to see you used the neutral stone tile! AND thrilled that you used the horse above the stove - I think more than anything that little personal touch that means so much to you completes this project! Congrats.
  • 12 years ago
    Saw this in one of the other discussions (also someone who's decision is done and people STILL keep suggesting things without reading): "If you're tired of getting new suggestions, it's possible to change the settings on a discussion to be complete and accept no new comments :-)" Not sure exactly where or how but apparently the madness can be stopped....
  • 12 years ago
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    Sorry your original choice did not work out and ended up being a project in itself. The final project is beautiful and was worth stopping the install and getting what you want. But as to reading every post...this one looks like it might end up being as long as War and Peace...with a plot almost as confusing. :)
  • 12 years ago
    Read this thread as I too have Crema Bordeaux granite in a galley kitchen and have no clue what color of tile to put as my walls. 4" backsplash is also granite. My application is quite different [see pic I drew in Paint]. I have to admit.... this thread took me a while to read but was quite entertaining!
  • 12 years ago
    Lori your finished kitchen is beautiful! I love the horse plaque!
  • 12 years ago
    Thank you so much!
  • 12 years ago
    Your kitchen turned out BEAUTIFULLY!! Love the copper accent of the horses. I'm wondering what is the name of the tile you selected for your walls. I think it could very well work on my application. Is it travertine or tumbled marble?
  • 12 years ago
    Hi Jorce...it's tumbled marble.
  • 12 years ago
    Way too busy...I agree with you.
  • 12 years ago
    Marcia...what is way too busy??
  • 12 years ago
    lorricav - I'm thinking Marcia is referrring to the original picture in the discussion:)
  • 12 years ago
    LOL...read up. Happy this thread turned out to be entertaining for everyone...including myself!
  • 12 years ago
    I have to say you did a lovely job with your kitchen. We have to sometimes go with our gut.
  • 12 years ago
    Way to busy. I have chocolate Bordeaux this is what I did.
  • 12 years ago
    Turned out great! The horse's turned out pretty cool. Glad you stopped the original install.
  • 12 years ago
    Wow. Just read through . It turned out beautifully!
  • 12 years ago
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  • 10 years ago

    I think your kitchen with the copper horses looks perfect over your stove! The result was worth the journey!