An octagon or wrap around island would do nothing but create a giant obstacle to navigate around.

No to the octagon. Haven't seen those installed in 20 years, and there is good reason.

Thank you. Ive I’ve attached pictures to show what I mean. 1st photo is the rectangular, 2nd is the ”octagon” may have used wrong word.

Batwing islands are horrible space wasters that people can’t wait to get rid of.

Now seeing your pics, I'll amend my comment - have not seen those batwing islands installed since the '90s. :)

You also want to avoid the upper cabinets shown in those pics that are different heights like castle ramparts. That too is 20+ years out of date.

Batwing? lol! Now I’m sure I don’t want it. Thank you! i guess i just thought it would give me more counter space & seating. But I want an open feel for sure!

Instead of having cabinets of different heights to break up long expanses of cabinetry, would you be interested in having some glass door cabinets? You can't store food in them because that doesn't look right, but I have glassware and dishes in mine (the previous owner of the house did the kitchen) and I love the way it looks. Mine are also lighted inside.

Yes thats a good suggestion. i will talk to our builder. Thank you!