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4 years ago
last modified: 4 years ago

Son is in the hospital ICU, bit by a copperhead. Small bite on pinky so it is better than it could have been but of course I am upset.

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  • 4 years ago

    Just seeing this-glad your son is better!

    lucillle thanked texanjana
  • 4 years ago

    Just read this.  Good to hear he's recovering.

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  • 4 years ago
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    Good to see the update of better news.

    Adding my good wishes for continued healing.

    P.S. It's actually antivenin, not -venom🙂

    lucillle thanked carolb_w_fl_coastal_9/10
  • 4 years ago

    Wow, how scary and glad to see some good news. Please keep us updated.

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  • 4 years ago

    Saying prayers for peace for you, and healing for your son.

    Glad to know he's been discharged.

    Please keep us posted on his progress!

    lucillle thanked pudgeder
  • 4 years ago

    Not only am I happy your son is getting better, I want to thank you for giving us a PSA.


    After reading your story I immediately passed it on to DS who also lives in a rural area. I'm in OK and rattlers are closer to us than copperheads which I think ae mainly in eastern OK. We also have water moccasins that stray.


    Every summer he puts up an above ground pool for the kids. He bought a new one put it up on Saturday. This one is much bigger and his backyard is on a slight slope. He and DH put decorative garden blocks under the pool to raise and level it off.


    Best wishes to you and your son!




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  • 4 years ago

    So glad he's doing better and able to be at home. I'm not sure I've known anyone to leave the hospital and not be tired and looking forward to getting some rest. Have good visit with him!

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  • 4 years ago

    I will include in my prayers.

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  • 4 years ago

    Wow how scary! Glad he received great care and is on the mend. I will keep him in my thoughts.

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  • 4 years ago

    Lucille, I just saw your post and am so relieved to see your update that is is doing better. What a scary situation for you all!

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  • 4 years ago

    Lucillle, such a relief, I am sure! Great update to read.

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  • 4 years ago

    Carolb, antivenom is a common use term now too.

    lucillle thanked OutsidePlaying
  • 4 years ago

    Glad to hear your son is Ok. What a relief!

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  • 4 years ago

    I’ve been thinking of him, and you, all day. I came back here and jumped to the bottom to see exclamation marks of joy! Whew! Yes, rest, I’m sure between ICU activity and worry and discomfort, he didn’t sleep well. You either! get some rest!

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  • 4 years ago

    I'm so glad to hear that your son is doing better. Hope you can both get some much needed rest now! ❤️

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  • 4 years ago

    I'm glad he's doing better...and going home. 🦋

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  • 4 years ago

    Another who’s late to the party, and happy to hear its already looking up.

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  • 4 years ago

    Just now seeing this. So sorry for such a scary and stressful time! Thankful to know that he is doing well. Yes, they are always our babies!

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  • 4 years ago

    Wishing the bets for your son, you, and family.

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  • 4 years ago

    What a scare. I hope your son contines to recover uneventfully, and quickly.

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  • 4 years ago

    So glad to hear your son is recovering. What a scary thing to happen!

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  • 4 years ago

    How awful for your son and terrifying for you. So glad he is on the mend!

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  • 4 years ago

    Sometimes it's best to be a little 'behind' on the news. What a relief to see a good outcome here! When does your heart beat slow to normal again?

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  • 4 years ago

    So happy to hear he is doing better!

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  • 4 years ago

    Lucille, yesterday evening while being high on snake alert because of your son, wouldn't you know it, our dog caught a snake next to the house in the shade. This is the second dog we've had that can smell a snake a mile away. He's an indoor/outdoor dog and when we hear a specific bark we get up and yep, he's already killed it and is flinging it in the air.


    We've had several snakes over the year cooling off in the dark on our porches. Everyone be careful!

    lucillle thanked Oakley
  • 4 years ago

    How's he doing today (Tuesday) Lucille?

    lucillle thanked pudgeder
  • 4 years ago

    I am really happy to hear your good news!!

    lucillle thanked Michele
  • 4 years ago

    How's he doing today (Tuesday) Lucille?


    Thank you for asking. I just had lunch with him. His hand still looks horrible and he can't lift anything with that hand. He is monitoring himself with a list they gave him.


    Plans as soon as he heals a bit are for making the area a little safer, maybe getting a leaf blower for the area aound the house and blocking the under house access to the dogs. Apparently it was a baby or very young copperhead and I am surmising that there may be more in the area.

  • 4 years ago

    I'm glad he is continuing to do well. I wish him a speedy recovery (and for your recovery from the nerves and stress, as well)

    lucillle thanked Gooster
  • 4 years ago

    Glad he’s monitoring with a checklist.

    Copperheads and other snakes will look for sources of water and shade in hot weather, so always look before you turn on an outdoor faucet for example. They like to hide and are good at it. You will usually hear a rattlesnake if disturbed but not a copperhead.

    lucillle thanked OutsidePlaying
  • 4 years ago

    How scary! I'm very glad your son is recovering.

    Was the dog bitten as well? Hope not.

    lucillle thanked sjerin
  • 4 years ago

    No dog injury. There is a pond on the property, and plenty of forest (the house is located on a clearing after several miles of winding road from the main road) it sounds like a copperhead vacation spot. There will be no getting rid of the snakes, they will have to be careful and just keep the house/porch area clear of leaves and debris.

  • 4 years ago

    Sending best wishes for a quick recovery. Hope it never happens again.

    lucillle thanked caflowerluver
  • 4 years ago

    A friend here in Virginia was bit on the hand by one a few years back while moving a woodpile. He came in to the house and told his wife what happened and said he was going to drive himself to the ER. She responded "Oh no you're not! I'm driving you." He said that by the time they were about halfway to the hospital the pain was so great he wouldn't have been able to keep driving.

    I saw my friend a few days later, and his hand look awful -- like it had been mangled in a piece of farm equipment. But the next time I saw him, his hand looked perfectly fine. So it's going to look worse before it gets better.

    I live on a horse farm that is quite close to town, but I've seen copperheads here on a couple of occasions, and non-venomous snakes rather frequently, including finding two black rat snakes beneath the seat of my tractor. A worker in a forestry mulcher reportedly saw a big copperhead just a couple of weeks ago, in an area where he was working, and he dispatched it. Each time I see a snake I am startled and frightened, but I thus far I have always gone with the live-and-let-live approach. It is always disconcerting though when i see one, and then look away for just 30 seconds (perhaps to run get my camera) and after that it is nowhere to be seen.


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  • 4 years ago

    Any update on your son?

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  • 4 years ago

    Thank you for asking. The swelling has decreased and he has regained some use of his hand. Unfortunately there is another life changing side effect: At the time he was bitten, he was uninsured. I am very happy with the quality of the medical care he received, even though he was admitted to two different hospitals prior to ending up in the ICU of the second hospital.


    But what is important is that he is alive, we can cope with anything else.

  • 4 years ago

    So glad your son is better and is regaining use of his hand. Too bad about the financial burden. I wish that never happened when people are sick or hurt.

    lucillle thanked yeonassky
  • 4 years ago

    So sorry about the insurance problem. I hope reasonable arrangemnts can be made. Awful. Glad your son is doing better.

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  • 4 years ago

    I believe Hospitals have great payment schedule's at least in Michigan. We were offered a very affordable payment plan. If it is too high for his budget, just let them know.

    lucillle thanked Judy Good
  • 4 years ago

    I dont know how I missed all this but I am very glad to hear he is recovering. That is by far the most important thing. I'm sure payment arrangements can be made. You could also ask their financial aid department if there is any help available. My nephew had an accident years ago and was uninsured at the time, they worked with Catholic Charities thru the hospitals financial aid and they helped a great deal.

    lucillle thanked katlan
  • 4 years ago

    I’m glad your son is getting better and wish him a complete recovery. You may want to ask the hospital billing office to give him uninsured rate for the charges. Best of luck.

    lucillle thanked palisades_
  • 4 years ago
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    Glad your son is doing better.

    Insurance co are able to negotiate a huge reduction in fees. Maybe, an individual can also negotiate similar fee reductions.

    lucillle thanked likestonehomes
  • 4 years ago

    I hope it all works out, Lucille.

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  • 4 years ago

    Thank you, it will. The important thing is that he is alive, everything else we can cope with.

  • 4 years ago

    Glad to hear your son is recovering. If the hospital is a non-profit they usually will look at his assets and make financial arrangements accordingly. If not, I would still check with the hospital business office manager and see what arrangements might be available.

    lucillle thanked lizbeth-gardener
  • 4 years ago

    Lucille, you and your son continue to be in my prayers.

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  • 4 years ago

    Yes, glad he is well and continuing to heal. As far as the billing, I have nothing to add but to repeat many of the suggestions offered above. Everything is worth trying and pursuing . I am confident that the bills will be reduced, and he will definitely qualify for assistance. from one or more options.

    Unfortunately it does take time and effort but it will come together.

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  • 4 years ago

    Hoping that your son is continuing to improve. Sending prayers.

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  • 4 years ago

    That is terrific news!


    When I was 10, we moved to NC so my stepfather could attend Duke Law School. I had to walk 3 miles to and from school. I found a small snake and stuck it in my overall pocket one day on the way home from school. Then I forgot about it. During dinner I remembered it was in my pocket and pulled it out to show my mother. I still remember the sound of the dish she dropped. It was a small copperhead, very much alive. No one got bit, thank god. My mother was a science teacher. I think she put in the freezer or a preservative to show her class.

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