If it makes you feel better to know it, you are not the only one to find this difficult! I would look for natural light grey, or something like SW Pure White (which is very slightly green/yellow). You are going to have to get some samples, paint a bit, and see how the paints compliment the cabinets in different lights.

Are you sure it is not something about your lighting or what is outside your windows that are making things look green because it is not just your cabinets. Your soffit and ceiling look green to me as well.

My link above isn’t showing up as green, so I’ll try to paste it in. This is an old thread on the same issue. My guess is the color shifts green with changes in light angle.

https://www.houzz.com/discussions/5829106/complementary-color-needed-kraftmaid-moonshine-kitchen