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Men's jacket. Marked Best seller


" It looks like they are trying to embrace feminine clothing for men, in a subtle way. I guess it is a start but they need to dive in much deeper IMO. I personally love that style, in a more dramatic way, for myself. I find much of it to be ultra edgy and stylish."

This is an interesting take, both with regards to seeing it more embraced, and in thinking that it is subtle. Because for a lot of people even the slightest hint is not subtle. And more on the "feminine" angle in a bit.

Modesty is now officially just a seven letter word for crossword puzzles.

Well, women have been showing up at music and film industry events little more than naked for about a decade, culminating with Bianca Censori at the Grammys. And more prominent women have been showing up at serious events with a questionable amount of skin showing more recently.

Most of the men's clothing shown, with exception of the lace pants, which have the potential I would say, to be immodest, are really pretty much full coverage. And I don't think most men who wore the lace pants would go commando under them because the lace and such would be um, irritating to a particular body part.

The shirts show "bare chest" which you can see outside on a hot day in many places anyway.

This is from a relatively conservative clothing brand, and is also styled with a suit.



Just as an aside, one thing that I have seen creeping back for a number of years is much shorter men's shorts, on all ages and builds.


Now back to the femininity and modesty angle. Also, most of the boundary pushing clothing is European based.

The most "feminine" outfit I found was Dolce and Gabbana. This not only comes with a built in liner, it is meant to be worn with a long matching shirt. There is a variation with full length inner pants as well. This is the most expensive outfit. What is interesting is that the very large sizes are the ones that are sold out. I think this would be too much for any large man or woman. The problem is while it may look best on emaciated 20 year olds, how many emaciated 20 year olds can afford it. It's like seeing tubby old balding men in expensive sports cars, but they can afford them. And of course this model is androgynous. It depends on what he has on.


And while the lacier and more sheer things skew feminine, they are not styled feminine. The bowling shirt is styled with vaguely bondage type accessories and leather pants


Moving onto skirts. Men's kilts have had a presence in the US outside the Scottish market for some time. They sell, but they are rarely seen on the street in my experience.


This European retailer regularly features men's or unisex skirts, but there is nothing really "feminine" about these, even on women. They are not particularly "flattering" as street fashion often is not. European brands also make a lot of bags for men that would be considered "purses" in America.


Thom Browne has made men's skirts for years. These aren't really feminine either. But his women's clothes are severe too. The one on the left reminds me of grade school in the winter, when girls would come to school with pants under their uniforms for the walk.


This men's skirt is styled more feminine, but probably only because it is more body conscious, and the body is shown more and he is in good shape. Some people think that for a man to be masculine, (outside being in movies or an athlete)


particularly in this country, he has to be out of shape, although this is changing.

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    That’s definitely the softer side of men’s clothing. I don’t dislike it but I think it will take a minute or two to get used to.

  • last year

    I want one

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    My sons wouldnt be caught dead in it.

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    ^^^mine either. Nor my DH. I would be the one ordering it for me.

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    I love it.

  • last year

    Every so that often, they throw in a curve ball.

  • last year

    I like it a lot!

  • last year

    I don't know that I would want to wear things with perforations in them.

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    Parker York Smith (youtuber with emphasis on men’s fashion) would absolutely wear that. He wears sweaters and jackets he buys in the women’s department because they are shorter.

  • last year

    I would 100% wear that. My DS? Not a chance! DH? Doubtful.

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    I personally think it's ugly for anyone. My hair guy would wear it in a heartbeat. I love him-but, I don't usually like most of the things he wears. Every so often, he looks adorable, and I tell him so.

  • last year

    I saw a guy at the gym today. Black dude, totally bulked up! I could imagine HIM wearing THAT jacket and looking really Gooooooooooooooooooood in it! It would tone down the muscled up look just enough. Most guys THAT big are on steroids. They need a little smoothing over. Something for everyone...

  • last year

    While looking at clothes online, I also came across a number of semi sheer, crochet, and mesh shirts and sweaters for men, paired with trousers and jackets.

  • last year

    I’m not a big eyelet fan, so I wouldn’t wear it, nor would the mr. (tina marie)

  • last year

    I've seen a few guys wearing crocheted tops lately, loose grandma squares, with a sleeveless tee underneath.

  • last year

    Love that jacket, I would totally wear it. My son, likely not, but he can be experimental in his attire so I might be wrong. DH and SIL, never. I do not like mesh clothing at all, not for anyone.

  • last year

    If any of the males I know would wear it, it would be my oldest son - if his LA bride liked it. I wouldn't expect it. It appears the eyelet is more geometric than floral. I'm not a fan of mesh in clothing, but I do like lace, crochet and eyelet embroidery. Climate might play a role in that, but I like the look as well. For me.

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    I guess Gap is jumping on the train in a more subtle way, making a nod at what's happening in higher fashion. It seems that the more sheer it is, the more expensive it is. I don't imagine this will be seen at all outside the metro northeast and California, and even then it will probably mostly be worn with a tank top or t-shirt under it, which is how it is shown even in some of the catalogs. Guess, Lucky, Aeropostale, Banana Republic, even Walmart. But the one at Walmart is Very subtle.

    YSL first showed a lot of sheer women's clothes in 1966, and they sold out. But they mostly sold out with coordinated underpinnings.

    That is the Back view of the blue bowling shirt just to show exactly how sheer that one is









  • last year

    I do like the look of navy eyelet and wonder why we think eyelet skews feminine.

    Don’t care much for mesh clothing w/o a lining and hate & double hate the mesh slippers.

    Is this cost or design driven— wonder if mesh fabric is generally cheaper than full weight

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    It looks like they are trying to embrace feminine clothing for men, in a subtle way. I guess it is a start but they need to dive in much deeper IMO. I personally love that style, in a more dramatic way, for myself. I find much of it to be ultra edgy and stylish. Some of the best pieces in my wardrobe were designed for feminine men.

  • last year

    To me, mesh means a regular pattern of open weave -- like a window screen or a cane chair back, but in fibers for fabric. Eyelet is made by starting with a woven or knit fabric that is embroidered in a design that includes regular holes as part of the design. Mesh may be relatively inexpensive, but eyelet tends to be more expensive.

    I have noticed a trend toward lighter and more delicate fabrics, especially in shirts, tops and dresses. They are nice for my climate, but not all hold up, so the cynical side of me sees it as a counter to the slow fashion movement -- replace often.


  • last year

    It looks as if the eyelet/lace extends to men's trousers of various levels of conservativeness






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    I do not like seeing pockets through fabric. Not really a fan of the eyelet jacket (but it could grow on my) or sheer shirts on men. The last pair is comical. How does one keep something from slipping and showing, and how do these look in the back? Inquiring mind that I am, I did a Google image search. They also have rather large pockets in the back that show through. Anthropologie is almost sold out of a set made for women.

  • last year

    I guess you are supposed to either wear skin tone underwear or contrasting underwear under the lace pants.

  • last year

    Modesty is now officially just a seven letter word for crossword puzzles. 😎

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    Pal, I saw several pants with either white/ivory boxers, one with mid thigh under-something or seemingly nothing in others. They are fitting for a beach vacation. ETA: Women's clothing.

  • last year

    I would be surprised to see the lacy/see through men's pants anywhere, I guess. The pretty solid versions maybe. A lot of very revealing clothing gets sold, but I would imagine it doesn't leave the house most of the time.

  • last year

    A beautiful dude in a kilt is extremely appealing to me, but I grew up in a bagpiping community so guys in skirts seem very natural to me.


    I'm not a fan of eyelet on anyone. But, I'm glad that men have access to breezy clothes in their size and fit.


    From a young age, I have had an incredibly gender neutral view of the world. I'm thrilled there is now terminology, styles, and, in some areas of our culture, acceptance for what has always seemed inherently right to me.

  • last year

    DH and I were clothes shopping for him last night and we saw the short shorts. I commented he may still have some like that at home!

    I feel like it could take a while for the average 20-40 year old to embrace that trend. It is the opposite of wearing your pants down on your hips and it is shows your body so much more than knee length baggy shorts. I feel many guys would feel so uncomfortable showing that much leg now.

  • last year

    The thing is that above men's knees is often the better part of their leg, more than the calf


  • last year

    w.r.t mens shorts, don’t wanna see what I think of Australian-style of short-shorts but also think that mens shorts that hover below or right at the knee tend to be unattractive. Below the knee cargo pants are the worst.

  • last year

    Fabric is expensive.

  • last year

    I think the baggy short is a matter of proportion and build. If you are very tall and skinny and combine it with a narrow shirt and the right shoes, it works. However, most people are not proportioned to carry this off very well, or young enough.


  • last year

    The shoes required to carry those are comical and the little space between the socks and hem is akward. He would look so much cuter if 8” were chopped off and the loafers were still chunky but not clownlike.

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    I have a skirt remarkably like this…. mustard gold with silver buckles from The Frankie Shop. (Very mini, and I wear it only with black tights, shoes and turtleneck. )

  • last year

    Gosh I love the jacket. I sometimes need just a bit of something for warmth, and I like the eyelets in this. I have a cardigan used solely for restaurants that is similar - just enough weight to keep the ac chill at bay.


    (And I suppose I have officially entered old person territory by complaining about AC in restaurants.....)

  • last year

    It's hard to imagine the lace/see through clothing as anything other than a beach coverup. And do men need beach coverups? Maybe if they're wearing speedos and want to go into a restaurant?

    Seems very Miami Beach and nowhere else kinda clothing to me.

    That last pic of the long shorts and clown shoes is just ridiculous. Really, does anyone wear shoes like that?

  • last year

    The supersized shoes are because the photograph is taken that way. They are big shoes but not that big. This outfit is supposed to be weirdly proportioned, I think. And it's why so few people can wear it. Or should wear it maybe.


    But the exaggerated version "classic" shoe, is a thing:


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    HOLY COW! :O