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I Have Seven Months to Find Two Dresses

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Niece is getting married in NOLA at the end of February, hoping SueB will weigh in on the venues—- Virgin Hotel for the rehearsal dinner, sculpture garden in CityPark for the ceremony and the NO Museum of Art for the reception. We’ve only received a save the date but their website has all the info already, including a fairly detailed and liberal description of the dress codes.


For the dinner: Cocktail Attire: Wear cocktail dresses, LBDs, dressy jumpsuits, and dark jackets and slacks


For the wedding and reception: Semi-Formal: Suits, cocktail dresses, tuxes and gowns are all welcome


With such wide latitude I am looking at everything I already have and, of course, thinking about new dresses as well.


My inclination is for a knee length or tea length dress for both occasions. DH will probably wear a dark gray suit for the dinner and a tuxedo for the wedding. DS 1 / GF and DS 2 will probably attend. DD and fam will not, as she will have a new baby by that time.


DN and fiancé are both doctors finishing residencies in NOLA so I suspect SIL will be doing most of the planning.


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    I like blues, greens, light pink, some yellows, oranges and corals, and all shades of brown and tan. I don’t do prints as a rule, except stripes and plaids (including the currently popular gingham). I am not really a bold dresser, and when I think about it I am not really much of a fun one either 🤔

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    From what I've seen of your outfits, you seem to have a very classic style. Not bold, but that doesn't make it boring. Your LBD is really lovely and I am excited to hear how the satin outfit works.


    Hope you don't mind, but shopping felt like a fun distraction, so here are a few ideas if you do decide to shop outside of your closet. Not sure if they're your style, but thought you'd look lovely in all of them. Tried to find something with a little something extra style-wise for NOLA but not straying too far from your classic style.


    Mac Duggal @ Bloomingdales



    Eliza J @ Bloomingdales



    Dress the Population @ Nordstrom



    Ricke Freeman @ Neiman Marcus

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    Having seen you in dozens of outfits, kswl, I always like you best in a classic style.

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    Love the sleeves on the LBD, @pricklypearcactus

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    I love the style and color of the blue dress! The pink one is a great style but I don’t like the printed skirt, not a huge fan of prints but this one is so distinctive I think it would be hard to wear it more than once or twice. Since we live in such a small community there’s a lot of overlap socially 😎


    eta….yes the sleeves on the black dress are unusual and lovely!

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    Look what I found ! A NOLA wedding is the time to go a little wild!


    Even the seller is from NOLA




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    Ok I will stop soon. I am not sure if a 6 might be too big.





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    I picked these for you from The RealReal.






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    LOL!

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    Spanish those dresses are so lovely! I’m going to drag out everything I could conceivably wear and look it over with a critical eye.….

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    The LBD looks great on you. Since the shape is more modern, how about using jewelry that is more contemporary and fun? Especially since it's only the rehearsal dinner.

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    Someone has to buy that black dress posted above with the fluttery cap sleeve. So cute yet so simple. Cmon KSWL!

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    That's nice that you will be part of the rehearsal dinner. Especially if you are travelling. I like the LBD, it is a classic for a reason. But I still prefer color for weddings.

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    Those sleeves are awfully cute, I have to admit! Kitchy I agree color is preferable for weddings and related festivities, but the wedding is in February and the dress code specifically mentions LBDs….. and don’t forget I have that black net over nude underlining dress with the crinoline that is just languishing and none of that branch of the fam has seen it.

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    black net over nude underlining dress with the crinoline


    that does sound perfect

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    K - is that the black dress you wore on your cruise? I was hoping it would be a contender.

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    That’s the one! It fits well and I can wear my l black kitten hee velvet pumps and black stockings since it will be cold-ish. Cool, at least.

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    When y’all are done here, can you find me a dress for a winter wedding? Thanks. All this dress chatter is moving me to look for ”my” wedding, but of course it is too early because there’s not much availably yet with sleeves.

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    We need a separate board for this, LOL.

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    The flutter sleeve Eliza J dress is navy if that makes any difference! Looks like a black version is available at Nordstrom Rack. Someone should definitely buy it. I love the flutter sleeves too. Unfortunately I don't seem to have many events in my life these days so I have to live vicariously through all of you.


    Links:

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    @Sueb20 can’t remember your size, but here are some ideas








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    @pricklypearcactus, Our next GTG should be a formal, so we can wear stuff in our closet we never got to wear twice!


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    Aww thanks! My main challenge is that I need a petite (usually 10P) esp if the dress has a defined waist. I do have this dress I could wear; just need to ask bride’s mom (my childhood BFF) if she cares whether people wear black dresses. I have a feeling she won’t care. She already said she expects a wide range of attire given the families involved.




    If I do wear this dress, or whatever dress, then my next dilemma is shoes and stockings vs no stockings. The last winter wedding I attended, I ended up wearing black stockings and boots because the weather was terrible. And it was a fairly informal wedding.

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    I know I am boring, but I like this…comes in navy or black. Maybe too shapeless?



    Sorry to hijack, k!

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    I remember that tiered dress; do you also have it in plum?

    I like the lace sleeves on this new one.. I may get grief for this, but I feel that navy at weddings has been totally overdone by our demographic, myself included. So I vote black or a different dress.




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    That first one I shared is actually dark green. 😍

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    No such thing as a hijack on a clothing discussion Sue 😁 If it can be worn we can discuss it.. to death if necessary!


    Many lovely dresses here and I am completely on board with a formal GTG! Wouldn’t a restaurant be agog at a party of twenty or so ladies in gowns, cocktail attire and walk-through dresses! (Now that I have learned that term I am using it at every opportunity 😎 ….. wonder if it will show up on a future SAT?

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    Mtn, I had the dress in a fuschia color, but never wore it and ended up giving it away. It was too long and obvs would be tricky to hem. I stumbled upon the black, in petite, on a great sale so I bought it even though I had nothing planned. I think it’s a fun dress.


    It is hard to see in the second pic, but that dress is all lace. I might have to order it to try.

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    So I also found the lace dress in pink.



    And more pink.




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    What time of year again, Sue? I like the pink lace

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    I think she said February in Ohio? Pink would certainly be more cheerful. .

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    Yes, K is correct!

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    I actually ordered dress #3 this morning bc it’s half price at Dillards (full price at Bloomingdales).

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    You need to photograph it in your guest bedroom Sue… I’m seeing a theme!


    BTW, i looked through my sweaters last night and I have a chunky orange handknit one that looks like one you posted! And it is OLD, I will make a photo of it

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    I guess I am older than most of y’all, I like my dresses to be at least mid calf, if not longer. They just look dresser to me. Above the knee looks like a sundress???

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    None of the dresses I am posting are above the knee on me. I am 5’2”. These models are at least 5’8”.


    K, the room you’re thinking of is my primary! Yes, I have a pink n green thing going on. Though my room is more like a muted coral and mossy green. Annnd the den next door to it has a green sofa and a pink and green rug. Annnd my office/craft room is pink, black, and white. Annnd... well. You get it.

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    This thread has been thoroughly enjoyable - especially since it isn't me who is looking for a dress. If a formal or dressy event does appear on my horizon I'll be re-reading all of these posts for ideas.

    DD and I do have fascinators that we wore years ago to a fancy luncheon at a British tea room. Sadly it closed during Covid.




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    I discovered that Macy's has a whole petites dress section online for @Sueb20!


    I love this first one from Calvin Klein.



    London Times



    Jessica Howard

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    I like that last blue dress that looks like a heavy dupioni silk!

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    I was just going to same the same thing -- different shade and interesting fabric. I've been scrolling through the laces and pinks. You both have so many options. Mtn

    too. Everything long looks like the petite pink skirt dress on Mtn and anything above the knee is indecent.

    I enjoy living vicariously through all of you, but this is bringing back some PTSD from my son's wedding. I sure hope to avoid that when the other one marries -- even if I have to bribe them to elope or do a barbeque.

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    Thanks Prickly! I am hoping to find something with longer sleeves because….February. I like the CK floral too, but my experience trying on fit and flare dresses with that scuba fabric is that they look terrible on me. I tried a couple when I was looking for my MOG dress.


    It is really too early to be looking but with all the dress threads, of course I had to start!

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    I am serious, the next GTG should include a formal-as-you-like evening. If people don't have or want to wear formal, that'll be ok too, but we should do a dinner out in our finery!

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    Kswl this would look pretty on you! add pearls and you are set to go..such a classic look.


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    @Home Interiors With Ease that is such a pretty and classy dress! Would love it on @Kswl!

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    Beautiful!

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    I’m totally into dressing for dinner. Is the mext GTG on the calendar yet? I might have missed it.

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    My calendar says April 18!