backsplash quartz white with gold/grey

Nobody is going to click on all of those links. Take the time yourself, and post pics from the links.

It was supposed to be a video miatake anyway any ideas on colors with thise cabinets

Need to see the rest of the room colors as context is key and really nothing available for context. Appliance? Exact tops and splash? Surrounding rooms? Nothing is chosen in a vacuum.

It's all very cold and univiting. It needs some warmth to make it human. I hope you have wood floors. I'd do a riff off of wood floors with a warm cognac brown and some wallpaper that combined the blues and warm browns

https://www.homedepot.com/p/Veer-Decor-Allure-Foliage-Beige-Wallpaper-8249-AI2/338072654

I'm not an expert. Depending on how much natural light is present, a few shades to consider.

Im thinking a light shade of green (Pastel) personally.