Rustoleum makes a great paint for cabinets just make sure you prep them properly, painting cabinets is quite a job. Sometimes the best answer is to have them sprayed off site and you just paint the boxes that are left. you will have to take all the hardware, hinges off anyway . If you want to change handles this is when you would fill the holes you don't want.

consider hiring a pro if you are not diy savvy or don't have the time to spend on them