First, we need to know where you live. If you live far up north, it may not be time to put tomatoes in the ground yet. You need your last frost date to have passed and your night time lows need to be 55 degrees or higher. Until then, it's too cold for them to thrive in the ground.

Oh sorry, Im in southeast michigan, zone 5b... From what I hear, mothers day weekend is the time everyone plants into the garden out here:)

The tomato plants might need some food. When was the last time they received some light fertilizer pinch or two or 1/4 strength liquid fertilizer?

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Regarding loading photos, the 'detailed photo help' below will do the trick. It is actually way too detailed but it cracks me up every time I see it.

I think I would just plant them (if its time). You can plant them deep and just bury the lower leaves.

Here is a link that might be useful: Detailed photo help.

You might also want to post this and your pic over on the Growing Tomatoes forum here. It is linked near the top of this forums front page.

If by baby leaves you mean the seed leaves, the cotyledons, then it is normal for them to turn, dry, and fall off. The other "spots" could be caused by all sorts of things and most causes at this stage are just minor environmental issues and no real threat.

As to planting out now - normally your plant out date would be nearer the end of the month of May but if the weather has been extra warm and your forecast shows all the nights will be in the 50s then they should be ok.

Dave