pictures??

Options to think about: another coat of paint on one wall to test if it's the shade you want, less stark lighting, darker curtains, one focal wall in a darker grey (to match the dark grey curtains) - all these failing, I guess there is only one answer..not a huge job (easy for me to say), but if don't you'll never be happy.

Thank you for all of your suggestions. I will try a second coat tonight and see if it darkens a bit the light that is in there right now is a temp. construction light but there is so much natural light coming in during the day that it just washes out it seems.

it will look greyer if white trim is next to it.

this is why you should bring some of the items in before re painting the contrast of the furniture might be enough.

add a large white shag rug.

Personally, I think it should be repainted a sleek, smoky gray. But that's just me. Maybe you could play it up with black or gray accents / decor