I have decided I really like Restoration Hardwares St. James table. I put all the links to the restoration hardware furniture that I am debating...

First question: I want to change things up and go for the round table, but I'm so unsure! I love the look of the round, but I feel like my room tends to lean towards the rectangle. Also, I can't decide what size. I have 3 children- so family of 5. We don't often have company, but when we do it is usually a couple so if we could fit 7 possibly around the table. The space is about 8 feet by 10 feet. I am thinking the antique coffee for color.

Here is the link to RH:
Round Table I was thinking the 72 inch table

Rectangle Table I would do the 72 inch that expands to 103 inches

My cabinets are knotty alder. I would prefer all wood chairs since I do have kids. Would the English schoolhouse side chairs/ barstool coordinate?? And in the burnt oak??

English Schoolhouse Chairs

English School House Barstool
AAHHH!!! I hate making decisions!! And I don't live close enough to an RH store to have one of their designers come look at my space. I am hoping to change decor, backsplash, and light- but... it is a process! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! To anyone for your time and help me figure out my shape, size, color and of chairs!!!!