wondering if a buttercup color would go

BM Shoreline is a good color but it is in the grey family. On my computer it looks like your granite has shades of creams and beige...I would stick with these colors...your choice of the pink on the wall was a brave one but obviously not right. Keep that sense of boldness but greys are not right for your granite.

Take a mid-tone color from your granite.

Here's a look on Houzz "netuno Bordeaux"https://www.houzz.com/photos/traditional-kitchen-traditional-kitchen-new-york-phvw-vp~1995338

thank you... i agree the pink doesnt go...it actually was more purple...i also did a samovar grey and that didnt go lol....so now i think im going to try cream or beige....the one thing that was worrisome is if it would go well with ivory cabinets

Look at Sherwin Williams "Whole Wheat," which is a nice beige that looks great with warm whites.

November Rain BM

Rich Cream BM

Revere Pewter BM

I would look for a creamy warm white. That pinkish wall color is beautiful, but it doesn't go with the gold in your hardwood floors.

Try BM Berber White or Valspar's Lambs Ear

thank you all for the great ideas...i will keep posted to how it turns out...ive been working on this house for a year...slowly...chaniging almost every room....i just finished my foyer which in my eyes came out amazing...now trying to finish this kitchen

What color did you use in your foyer...could you use it here? Same color throughout house...

i used samovar silver...i tried that hoping it would work....i didnt like it with the cabinets

Poop. Looks great in your foyer though. Good job!

You could take cabinet door to paint store and match which might be best rather than "coming close". Or go to a light sage off white so it doesn't compete with granite (which is gorgeous). Stay on "warm" side of color palette though.