My initial thought was something like this, but it doesn't sound like bright and colorful is what you're going for.

You are right my husband doesn't like bright and colorful... He really likes Gettysburg Grey and I think it is too dark... Tried Sea Salt as a light alternative and it does not show up. What ever I do my doors need to pop... Thank You

Surprisingly, a darker version of what you already painted would make the white trim "pop", give a very clean look to all of the charming architectural detail. Then, maybe hubbie would go for a deep rich red, or a coordinating Carribean Blue front door. The color of your pool and your pool side furniture works well. I like the blue of your carriage house doors also. Paint stores have ideas on coordinating colors that mimic themes from styles/eras of homes that might give you an accent color. Wow. A version of purple or mauve would be a real pop!

I like your ideas.. The Carribean blue doors would help update the house.. Thank You

You are amazing!!!! I love your ideas.... I love the wood on the garage doors in the first photo. I may change them at a later date if we decide to go ahead with an extensive remodel. What color would you use on the decking with the 1st or 3rd photo? I have arborcoat and currently the color is a taupe. Thank You so much... I am including a photo I love but don't think my house can pull these colors off.