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At A Loss For Styling New Bed!

7 years ago

So with our completed remodel, my husband and I just moved into a new room and made the upgrade from a Queen to King sized bed, which means all new bed linens. Our style is best described as casual rustic, eclectic, transitional. We like a lot of the elements from PB & RH. We can be all over the place, really. I personally really like mixing things that may be a little unexpected.


So far we've purchased the bed and a nicer set of solid white sheets. Please excuse the fact that I still have standard pillows in the king cases... We live in a very rural area and do most shopping online, but sleeping pillows are not something I will purchase sight unseen, so we won't be replacing those until we make it to the big city. Our walls are Revere Pewter. I have ordered the Pottery Barn Belgian Flax Linen Duvet in Ivory. https://www.potterybarn.com/products/belgian-flax-linen-duvet-cover-sham-ivory/?pkey=e%7Cbelgian%2Bflax%2Blinen%2Bsham%7C135%7Cbest%7C0%7C1%7C48%7C%7C2&cm_src=PRODUCTSEARCH


But beyond that (pillows, quilt?, blanket?) I'm lost. I did not initially order any coordinating shams with the duvet cover, partly because I'm unsure of what I need and partly because even on sale I balk at the price. I didn't mind spending so much on just the duvet cover since we will actually sleep with it, but struggle with spending $150+ on a set of shams for pillows we will remove before getting into bed every night. Obviously I may just have to pony up and buy them, but I want to be sure I get it right, so I need help figuring out if I need Euros, Kings, how many, etc.


I know that I would like to incorporate these throw pillows, as my husband and I both love them and I feel the bed needs some pop of color. I particularly like the Bodrum and Izmir colorways. https://www.grandinroad.com/kilim-indoor-throw-pillows/158649?searchTerm=SUGGESTION%20-%20KILIM%20INDOOR%20THROW%20PILLOWS


So my question, is what do you all recommend in the way of Euro shams, King shams, etc? I have considered purchasing a quilt. Maybe something like this... https://www.target.com/p/all-over-stitched-chambray-quilt-threshold-153/-/A-17319786?preselect=17142205#lnk=sametab to fold at the end of the bed. I was kind of drawn to the olive green and thought it may look okay with the Kilim pillows. If I did that, would you recommend a sham of some sort in the same quilted pattern? If so, what size, how many? Really just seeking guidance on what shams I need and how I should place pillows. Thanks in advance for any help!



Comments (13)

  • 7 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

    Are you going to throw the extra pillows in shams on a bench or will you keep them on the bed when you sleep? There's no right answer. Many people throw their extra pillows on the floor at night which certainly doesn't keep them looking like an ad in RH.

    Many people just order extra pillowcases with their sheets to go with a second set of king pillows. Some people want matching sham covers for the duvet. It's a matter of personal preference.

    If you buy two sets of the perfect king pillows once you find them, you can rotate them for wear and tear. If you get Euro pillows, they will just be decorative.

  • 7 years ago

    @apple_pie_order I was raised that anything other than your sleeping pillow is "decorative" and thus should be removed before bedtime. So regardless of what I end up with, they will be removed and probably placed in a chair or on a bench (not sure which because I don't have one as of yet), but certainly not thrown on the floor since we share our room with two dogs who would rather lay on a pile of laundry than their premium dog beds. I can only imagine what they would do to pillows!

    I know that there are numerous ways to arrange pillows and it comes down to personal preference, but I guess I'd like to hear opinions on what others would do. I'm really thinking I probably need some Euros due to the height of the headboard. But if so, I'm unsure if they should match the duvet. I'm currently envisioning 3 Euros across the back possibly matching the quilt. So what do I do beyond that? 2 King shams that match the duvet? That makes 5 pillows to remove every night without even getting into the throw pillows. I don't mind it, but can definitely hear my husband complaining. Ack, I was so sure I knew what I wanted until I started trying to figure out these pesky pillows!

  • 7 years ago

    Can you make a mockup of the Euro pillows with paper or a cardboard box or two?

  • 7 years ago

    This link might help you visualize options. I like the idea of Euros because of the height of your headboard. You might be able to do two (in ivory or white), with your two sleeping pillows in front and then two more standard shams in front of those in ivory. Add color with a throw kilm. A blanket at the bottom of the bed to coordinate with the kilm is a great idea. You can check a site like amazon for shams in white or ivory that might look like they go with your duvet. If you use two sets of shams, then I think white in the back can work, but ivory to match the duvet in the front. I have shames that don't quite match my duvet and I regret it. I should have just sprung for the matching, but I'm with you- the price seems so high for something decorative.


    A second idea is to use sleeping pillows lying flat (two stacks of two is best), king or Euros in front of those, and one long bolster in front. You can always choose a fabric you love and have a bolter made. Good luck!

  • 7 years ago

    Morgan, i like what you have so far!!

    So, I'll share 2 pics of my bed -with &without Euro pillows. I have the same PB quilt-love & easy to wash. I air dry it.

    I much prefer the look with the 3euro pillows(IKEA &ikea down inserts=cheap!!), but live with the 2nd picture for day to day living. Because I'm tired when I go to bed & don't want to fuss with pillows!!

    1. 3 euros, 4 king sleeping pillows, 1accent-for when I have company!!:) I would throw a down comforter under the quilt, too so it would look extra fluffy &inviting. Only when having party, thou!!!

    2. 4 king sleeping pillows & truthfully, the accent pillow is usually tossed!!


    Im also a big advocate of IKEA for mixing in prints/patterns. My duvet cover is IKEA, too

  • 7 years ago

    I'll tell you what I did with my king bed that has a high headboard. I use 3 euro pillows in the back for the height. I used standard pillows with my matching shams that goes to my quilt. ( I couldn't find the shams in king) I use the pillow cases that goes with my sheet set with my king pillows. I have about 9 pillows on my bed. I like pillows and the other two are decorative and don't mind taking them off. I wish I had a picture.

  • 7 years ago

    You could do a long bolster or roll in front of the euro pillows. My old shams and long roll bolster included red and I need to have the bolster slipcovered to go with my newest colors.

    Sort of like this:

    Traditional Bedroom · More Info

  • 7 years ago

    I think that you will like the Target Threshold quilt since I have a similar one and it goes great with my linen sheets. Check out the other Threshold lines for shams or other sheets. I like their vintage wash, chambray linen and percale. I think they fit with the other pieces you've picked out.

  • 7 years ago

    Oops, cross post.

  • 7 years ago
    Thank you everyone who has chimed in so far!

    I remembered that the Queen bed upstairs has Euros (which were not chosen by me, so please ignore the style), so I went and stole them. I’ve attached a photo and this definitely confirms that I need 3. I’m going to take some time to read back through all of your different suggestions.
  • 7 years ago
    @Sharyn yes, I have been quite impressed with the Threshold line for the price point! We have a guest house rental and a decorater friend of my MIL’s sourced a Threshold quilt for one of the bedrooms. I couldn’t believe it came from Target! I’m so glad to hear you’ve had good experiences with your items also.
  • 7 years ago

    I have a quilt with matching shams for the summer and a much thicker quilt for winter on my king-size bed, and a bed skirt that works for both of them. They each came with two matching shams which I stuffed with bed pillows that I already have (not the ones we sleep on) and I have two decorative pillows in front of the shams. The shams and decorative pillows come off at night of course. It's a simple arrangement which works well for my husband and me. I like your kilim pillows which will add a nice accent of color to your bed.

    Morgan thanked ingrid_vc so. CA zone 9