It looks just lovely. Your physical investment in making the home yours will become an emotional investment as well and you'll look back soon and wonder how you could have hated it. You're making memories with each thing you do!

What br ICK where?

TV placement not necessarily the worst issue. The stand isn't doing the room any favors. Good suggestions on remedies.

Great example of how you can slowly but surely make your house a home. I had quite a few issues at my last house, but was able to solve quite a few over time, which was a nice feeling.

From the last posted photo of your home, I am seeing a beautiful family home with happy children!!! All the decor (though I do love what you have achieved) will not replace treasured memories with your family. Take the summer off from updates, sit back and relax, and just enjoy the fruits of your labor...the kids more so than the house.

That garden will be a great family project!

What color did you use on the front door? So pretty!

Small patio update.

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In progress...

@happyleg here is the brick I am speaking of, old photos

@maggieq& @katinparadise thank you so much!!

I would stain it the charcoal I think that stays on better than paint constant maintenance

I love that patio that's gonna look great you could do that stain like I said but I do like that red brick its contrasts with the roof but whatever you want

Yeah that read goes with that Redwood part of the deck

The house brick goes good with the deck that's what my phone was supposed to say goes with the Redwood

Would not paint brick since anything painted will, inevitably need to be repainted. The whitewash look is as bad as flecking/peeling paint. If you truly want your brick darker, you might consider stain but just power washing exterior brick -- something you'd need to do before any paint or stain might make exterior brick look better.

You could try setting your tv and stand diagonally at the corner with the corner and tv creating an empty triangle space behind the tv.

Really like your wrap around front porch and yard.

Consider planting planting Thrift or Creeping Phlox on the slope beside your driveway.

[In Zone 7, Liriope with its foot+ high purple spikes of flowers each spring, stays vertical throughout the growing season, then "relaxes" to be a more flat plant after the first hard frost but, with its winter relaxed green still in place, perks up with new center growth and blooms each spring. The plants, albeit slowly, do get a little bit wider each year, eventually enabling you to thin them and put more plants elsewhere.

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/ATdDi5eAzWbOrGyfRkgFti8GXp1Eo9I_yUxZWj3RZ9f71aJRXofBoSg/

If you prefer something more solid, you might consider outlining your driveway on the left (front yard) side of it. It is something you could do over time, buying several blocks at a time that you could haul home in your car trunk.

You could pour a concrete sidewalk and/or use the sturdier 4" concrete cap blocks (in lieu of thinner and more easily breakable pavers because you can expect someone to drive on them) in a way that prevents erosion or traffic from creating a bare place alongside your driveway.

https://www.homedepot.com/p/16-in-x-8-in-x-4-in-Light-Weight-Concrete-Block-Solid-L04081600030000000/312064976

You could have the blocks outlining your driveway sloped -- similar to this but using more durable blocks in case a car tire drives over it): https://www.hometalk.com/32526416/keep-that-mulch-off-your-driveway-with-a-clean-crisp-edge?expand_all_questions=1

The current color or the charcoal stain idea? @happyleg

Yeah decide which color you want the brick cause the red goes with the deck and the charcoal calls with your roof

If you painted or stain it there's Maintenance

What is your TV stand made of? Can it be painted? If you paint it white it will look much better because it will disappear into the wainscotting. Right now it really stands out and draws attention to itself which makes the problem worse.

I can paint it.

Thoughts? On shutter colors?

Black.

I think North Carolina is the cheapest state in the nation? Living in the Bay Area of california, that house would be well over $2m

Happy Holidays to you & family. Stop in here with any updates. :)

A small update. We planted a delightful hydrangea tree in our front bed.

Our neighbors always comment how they look forward to seeing our home on walks. They also comment in all its years our home has never looked this good. It is still a labor of love.

@Kathy Furt Here the average home, well at least when we looked was between 160 and 190k. That’s where most middle class families were looking to purchase. Some between 200-220k and then the demand changed closer to 250k plus. Our home was a bit over 200k. Homes in our neighborhood are now selling for 250k + and those home are smaller than ours and need some TLC.

An update of our basement turned play loft.

Before

After

Update of our sons room.

Before

after

Wow Looks like you have really made it your home.

You knocked it right out of the park!!! It’s absolutely wonderful. Looks like a welcoming, loving home. 100%

It's all wonderful! You can see with all the love and attention to detail you've put into it that it's no longer a "House That Does Not Feel Like Home."

FANTASTIC home and yard! Rooms are AWESOME! Great job!

Great job! Good for YOU!!!

Nice & he should be happy playing. :)

@JAN MOYER I am so pleased to see you responded. In my kitchen I gave a small plant, the planter says bloom where you are planted. I often look at it, & think of this chat thread that was most encouraging during such a stressful time. ;)

It looks beautiful! That night photo is gorgeous and your rooms!! Just darling.

Your home is beautiful. I would be thrilled to live there and raise a family there! It’s perfect

Thank you for coming back and updating us. You sounded so discouraged when you first posted, and it's been delightful to see your house and your attitude about it turn around. You've really created something to be proud of!

I do think "Bloom where you are planted" was on a lot of accessories from Mary Engelbreit.. Another? " Life's a chair of bowlies" Mmmmmmmm Now I must look. ( yup )

I had a mug for years with: "No matter where you go, there you ARE"

To me it simply means put the you in your "wherever. " You certainly did that !

Every time you post a new photo I am so happy for you @hartcm08! Your house is indeed turning into a home, and I congratulate you for your work--it looks wonderful! Enjoy these precious years with your family.

I don’t know if you moved very far, but it is very stressful to move. We left a beloved neighborhood of 31 years for a more rural setting to cash out of our Silicon Valley house. It’s been quite the struggle

Thank you everyone for your kind uplifting words

Update-

Man, this home is a lot of work. We have begun power-washing the brick-which has not been done in year's. I see the red tint more and am happy with the deck stain which keeps peeling. I was told it is due to how damp this area is with the lack of light. I discovered this week the lot extends back behind the tree line. The horror show I saw back there reminded me of why I was not in huge favor of this home. Apparently, no one who has owned this home in 33 years has ever done more than mow when needed. Such a huge property poorly maintained. 😞 Going to do our best to keep our head up, excuse my rambling.

Our home was like that & had rain coming in basement. We use a stain on wood instead of paint. Don't hold power wash too long in one spot.

Woah the house is gorgeous and it has really great bones. You’ve already done an amazing job. Congrats!
I wrote this article on how to decorate your house like a professional for free. I think you’d find it very useful:

https://rnovationsplus.com/5-genius-ways-to-decorate-your-house-like-a-pro-for-free/

Wow, @Massiel Heffner, I just read your blog post and see that you are a registered nurse. Maybe I should write an article about how to diagnose and treat your illnesses for free! Just go on the internet, find a nurse whose brain you can pick, and download a free software package on how to take your own blood and give yourself vaccines! All for free! Why bother with school when it's all available FREE on the web???

Hi @Diana Bier Interiors, LLC I didn’t mean to be disrespectful to your profession with the post. I apologize if it came across that way. You have to remember though that the post is for people who cannot afford to pay for these services and so looking for ideas and inspiration online is the next best thing for them. I write for a very specific group of people who fit this category. I’m not devaluating the profession but more so sharing alternatives. The same way I’d share different alternatives with my patients when they come to me and say they don’t have insurance and can’t pay for traditional healthcare services. I direct them to find cheaper and budget-friendly alternatives. We teach people how to self-inject for example with this in mind. We also teach people how to lose weight in the hopes they can achieve their goals and not have to use our services again! -this is what we strive to accomplish when we choose to help people, don't you agree? This is also why DYIs are so popular these days— not because we don’t want to pay someone to do it for us but because sometimes we just can’t afford it or it's not within our budgets. Again, I apologize if you were offended and I hope you can see my perspective.

@hartcm08 Wow. Your house is amazing. You’ve done a fabulous job. Honestly looks like something I’d see on a designer blog. There’s nothing sad or dreary about it. You definitely have a knack for making things pretty. I hope you are able to feel some “happy” living there!

You made some great changes ❣️I hope you learn to love your home more and more as you continue to add your personality to it❣️

I love the idea of the cut garden that you have. I think that makes a lot of sense!

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