I think Benjamin Moore light pewter would go well with your choices

Arctic white can be a good decision for walls in your kitchen from an aesthetic point of view.

But if you cook a lot, it will be terrible for you to clean the walls every time after the job is done.

Also, I don't advise you to place a white-colored tile because it becomes dirty very fast and it is needed to be cleaned more often.

Nevertheless, you can check this site to find more advice for your kitchen decoration.