Renovation isn't started just yet, but the plans are done, cabinets ordered. I don't need to decide just yet, but pondering lighting over the island. The kitchen is not huge and is open to a sunken family room divided by a half wall. Do I need pendants or would just recessed be ok and add a nice light fixture over the kitchen sink? I'm worried about too much going on, lights being too big or too small, or the lights being too low and getting in the way (hubby is 6'4") or being too bright for my eyes (cataract surgery has left me very light sensitive). My friends all say I need pendants over the island...so...coming to the experts here for advice on what to put there.

I could do two smaller size glass pendants, but not sure what size to use and how far they should be spaced apart and on either end of the island.

Or maybe more of an open lantern type chandelier but one that doesn't have too much height?

Or could I used a pendant drum shade light (may be a bad idea bc a fabric shade in kitchen) ?

Linked a few I like below.

Ceilings are normal 8 foot.

First photo would be me standing at the sink looking towards the family/TV room just over that half wall. Island is about 49"x58".

Let me know the rules and if you need any other info to provide advice!

I love these flynn pendants at PB, but think they are too tall/high for the space. Would hang pretty close to ceiling.

https://www.potterybarn.com/products/flynn-recycled-glass-pendant/?pkey=cpendants

https://www.potterybarn.com/products/pb-textured-glass-pendant-hood/?cm_src=rel

https://www.potterybarn.com/products/pb-classic-emery-linen-shade-pendant/?pkey=cpendants