Could you share the story of the kitchen? New construction, remodel? New factory finished cabinets or ? What type of finish is on the cabinets? How does the kitchen relate (connect) to the rest of the house?

This is a new build. The cabinets are custom. The kitchen is separated from the living room by a brick wall also in white Dove. if you are looking at the angle where this picture was taken the dining room is right behind there.

Here is another photo

Dining room is to the left

Cabinets are a semi gloss

What about changing the backsplash?

Its color and even pattern seems out of place in an otherwise well done kitchen.

Not an option. Backsplash was just grouted today and looks great!

Then I’d make it work with accessories. The work and expense of repainting cabs is huge and the durability will be worse than the factory finish. Changing backsplash is easier but you don’t want to do that so work with what you have. Search for white on white and white and cream kitchens and see how to pull together with accessories and texture.

I don’t see discord at all. I see layering of neutral tones - which I what I want in my next home. Not matchy matchy. Your kitchen is gorgeous! Once it’s all moved in, you’ll be fine.

I agree with Connecticut Yankee