Ive scrolled thru and read so many things on white paint my head is spinning. This is new Build, large home with huge windows. I am doing the medium stained wood cabinets as well as a white cabinet in the kitchen. I have a butlers pantry right off the kitchen that you can see that will be painted SW Dried Thyme. Floors Grande Lotte Oak LVP. Countertop is Caldia Quartzite leathered. So here is my dilemma--

Need White cabinet color/trim color and wall color. I do like a tone difference, so did not want to do all trim work/cabinets and walls the same.

I was thinking

1-BM white dove walls/ceiling/trim with BM Creamy kitchen cabinet.

Maybe with Chantilly lace trim?

or

2-Greek Villa Cabinet and walls with trim in pure white?

I did hold many other white or off-whites up to the countertop and it didn't go well. Everything turns very grey or beige. Alabaster would work too. I am going for more of a classic white at this point, but with some variation with walls or trim work. Any opnions appreciated.

Below I am holding up SW Greek Villa