Your color will be somewhere in that cultured stone. A white with a lot of brown in it could work if you paint the window trim a couple of shades darker, going into a greige that picks up on the bit of grey in the stone. Or, maybe greige for the siding, and leave the trim as is?

I agree with karemore. find your color in the stone.

Benjamin Moore makes a solid stain in a wide range of colors including white, although I agree with karemore55 and Rosemary about color. See the linked pdf for the colors: http://media.benjaminmoore.com/WebServices/prod/bm_stain/pdf/ArborcoatColorCard_chip_spread.pdf Attached are some stain colors I think would look good.

I agree with the other posts, I would definitely try for a lighter grey/beige color. It should come from the stone. On a project as expensive as this, consider hiring a professional decorator. I tend to do everything on my own but if I had to tackle my exterior again and if I thought I could possibly blunder, it would be dollars well spent. Good luck

I really like these scenarios

I like it the way it is. Maybe live with it for a while?

Definitely go with stone color, somewhere in the grayed beige. I would also paint the window a couple of shades darker then the body color you choose.

I think your trim is wrong, more than the house color. The window trim is too light and the gutter and fascia too dark.

What color could the eavestroughs and downspouts be if the dry sage color is used on trim?

I really like the sage with white trim! Do you know what kind of siding is on this house?

The siding color on the house you like is Cabot solid color stain in "Pewter"

I am keeping the rain gutters and facia the same, they have only been on the house for 6 years it would be ridiculous to change them. I have seen many homes with the dark windows and trim and the white siding. I am not thinking completely white, the color I have is called cement and its a Superdeck stain. I have also seen a few houses where the garage is stained a slightly darker color and I like that effect as well.

I am also thinking of restaining the wood beams with more of a grey color