What began as a simple(??) kitchen remodel has grown... we're knocking down the wall to the dining room, adding in a front vestibule, and opening up the staircase that separates the living and dining rooms. It's going to be gorgeous, but the costs are starting to add up.

So I'm starting to look at materials, and thinking we can save by making smart choices. We're VERY easy to please; give us 4 or 5 choices on almost anything and we'll find something we love.

We're getting Home Depot cabinets-- I think that means Kraftmade. I would like the cinnamonny look of cherry, though I think we can save a bit by getting some other material... what do you pros recommend? Maple? Oak? something else?

We're probably getting granite counters, and I see several I like in what most places are calling Group 1. I like Baltic Brown and Tan Brown, but I'm open to suggestions.

For flooring, the contractor has given us a $5 psf allowance. We haven't looked at that yet, but are thinking tile. (We have a small pool in the yard, 3 kids, and a dog. So it will have to be durable and relatively non-slip if possible.)

Anyone want to guide me? I'm pretty much in this house for life; by the time resale value is a factor, it will be time for a brand new kitchen anyway. So I'm looking for something that will look nice and stand up to the wear and tear of a family.

Thanks for any suggestions!