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need help with my daughters room

3 years ago

We just bought a new house and my daughter decided she wanted the 3rd floor attic for her room. It has pitched walls and no closet. It’s really hard to design. I really need help. She’s going for the “boho” style. I have some things like macrame curtains for her window and my husband made a wood bench for the foot of her bed. I just don’t know what else to do. I see cute wall decor but again her walls are pitched so it’s difficult. I need ideas to cozy it up. (Don’t mind the mess we moved in a couple months ago and still trying to get organized plus she’s a teenaged girl! 😬)

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  • 3 years ago

    She is NOT !!! :)


    It is your daughter and your house. Your instincts are excellent. Trust them!!


    I’m sure she means well... but she does not know about the Feng Shui of this. And most importantly - you placed your daughter’s bed on that other wall. Your house/your daughter/your rules. And you absolutely know what you are doing. Your original placement is right. 👌

  • 3 years ago

    Thank you for your reassurance!! I def doubt myself and my mother in law is a take control kinda person! I told my daughter she was excited about all the great ideas abs she wants to move her bed back to the wall now! Lol

  • 3 years ago

    If her bed originally was on another wall, presumably you've determined that she can, in fact, sit up in bed without hitting her head? If so, the window wall could become good storage if you move the bed elsewhere. I'd be reluctant to invest in built-ins (will the HVAC be up to keeping the attic room comfortable all four seasons? Is she going to go off to college in 2 years?) But IKEA has many storage options, and I'd bet you could flank the window with tall wardrobe units of a suitable width, and place dresser height units in between/alongside depending on your dimensions. Plain white furniture won't be "Boho" but she could add fairy lights, artwork, etc. to give it some character.

  • 3 years ago

    Yes I think her head will be ok by the wall her bed fits very comfortably in the curve so I think it will be fine. The house is brand new and has dual zone units. We were worried it would be too hot but she was actually very comfortable there. I saw the built in ideas on Pinterest and I LOVEEEE them but my husband doesn’t want to spend the money to have someone build them. 😢 he’s only somewhat handy lol. I’ve even seen built ins where instead of building INTO the attic they build OUT. So there’s a ledge at the height of the wall slope. Then they added drawers and a wardrobe rod. I think that would be easier for him to try himself. Plus it would be perfect to hide those small access doors which she hates. But yet they could still be accessible

  • 3 years ago

    And yes she’s 15 so college soon enough 😭😭😭😭

  • 3 years ago
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    https://www.houzz.com/photos/query/boho-teen-attic-room/nqrwns/p/80?oq=boho%20teen%20attic%20room&redirectoq=boho%20teen%20attic%20room

    There are some cool ideas at this link. Maybe she could scroll through and put her favorites in an ideabook for her room. That will help you understand what she might really like and can keep you two out of any arguments over what her hoped-for style should look like when completed. Be sure and have her write what is she likes about each saved pic; there is place to do that as she saves them. You'll get an idea about what to keep your eye open for when shopping. You never know when a great piece of something she likes will pop up and you can surprise her with it. Knowing you're on the same page will make this more fun for both of you.

  • PRO
    3 years ago

    Can you please draw a floorplan showing measurements and doors, window, etc. so that we're able to make a layout and suggestions. Perhaps also indicate the ceiling height where appropriate.

  • 3 years ago

    I'd put a rug on the floor, give her a bunch of 3M command strips to hang her pics wherever she wants them and she can move them when she changes her mind. If she wants to have a mega 3rd floor bedroom to herself (I'd have loved that as a teen but my brother beat me to it) then she has to live with a rolling wardrobe rack. It is a great life opportunity for her to learn about sacrificing somethings to get other things that you want.


    Anything else she wants, let her play around with moving furniture, setting things up her way. She is old enough to have the leeway to set up her space as she wants. It is such a low stakes way to give a teenager freedom.

  • 3 years ago

    Yes I love all of these ideas. You all have been so helpful!!!! I’ve been stressing about it since we moved in and you have given me such great ideas I think we can finally make it fun! I will work on a layout with measurements tomorrow! The more help the better!

  • PRO
    3 years ago
    last modified: 3 years ago

    Do YOU sleep where you entertain friends? I bet not!!!

    What attic bathroom goes with this room she has chosen??!

    There is no reason I can see, that this can't instead become a very cool hangout, her personal space to have friends, have tv......whatever! But any relative good looks? That means a place for clothes and grooming clutter. You don't have it here,. Take one of the other bedrooms - for bed, clothes, make up!

    Then? Her version of something as below. A platform, a couple cheap twin mattresses ( Costco ) a bunch of pillows ......etc . Her personal "family room".

    My point is sleep, dress, make up......elsewhere. You have the luxury of options, as does DD. This below? How fun! No junk and clothes all over!

    I'd have KILLED for my own "living room" at that age, far from sisters and parents!







    Or just let her have at this space and then close your eyes. Because there is really no place to put anything for storage, unless you BUILD it. After which you have reduced normal standing space to very little. I can SEE the mattress leaning on the wall and guess 66" max.

    PS....... The very last thing to "stress" about is a teen room in the attic. I bet DD is not the least stressed. Show us all your spaces. You know,..... the grown up stuff: )

  • 3 years ago

    Here's another story (with further links to others) that you and your daughter might find interesting: https://www.houzz.com/magazine/7-decorating-tips-for-an-attic-bedroom-sanctuary-stsetivw-vs~4211213

  • 3 years ago

    Having just gone through a room redo with my 15 year old I highly recommend letting your child drive all the decisions. We bought a lovely new bed and set it up and then it was rejected. We attempted decor that the teen said was good and then it was rejected. I’m now fully on the it’s not my room let them decide bandwagon. I mean within reason of course but they sleep there not me.

  • 3 years ago

    WestCoast, I was wondering how things were going with your DD’s room!

  • 3 years ago

    Jinx it’s full on dorm room chic. Box spring on the floor and mattress on top. Teen rotates it as they want and has pictures on walls. Teen happy so I’m happy and sold bed for what I paid so only thing lost was my sanity and time!

  • 3 years ago

    Awesome! Glad to hear everyone is happy. :)

  • 3 years ago

    Building in storage under the eaves could be a possible solution for both her and long term use? See some examples @ https://www.houzz.com/photos/greenwich-views-greenwich-london-contemporary-bedroom-london-phvw-vp~39344574

  • PRO
    3 years ago
    last modified: 3 years ago

    And the BATHROOM for this attic space is.......................................where? Someone, anyone, inform? Because with no bath on the same floor? A bedroom up there makes little to no sense. jmho.

    Even a 15 year old will want it closer. You will too when she barfs in the night- trust me - it happens. lol

  • 3 years ago

    Someone please give Jan a paper sack to breathe in.

  • 3 years ago

    Jan how do you know there isn’t a bathroom right across the hall or out of the photo? Even if there isn’t are you really suggesting the only way a bedroom can ever work is if there is a bathroom right near it? Sure that’s ideal but it’s not the end of the world

  • PRO
    3 years ago
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    I don't know, that's why I asked. Do you know? Maybe there is. Who knows? But IF you have to traipse down a floor? UGH. I at no point said it had to be en suite: )

    More importantly up here , there will be a lot of built in work to make adequate clothes storage. Or live with lots on the floor.

  • PRO
    3 years ago
    last modified: 3 years ago

    Jinx, you get to clean up the barf. Okay? I assume you went all your teen years and NEVER woke to heave in the night. ahahahahah!! right?

  • 3 years ago

    Jan, no one said ensuite needed. Not you nor I. And I’m hardly designing my home for a once an a blue moon flu or vomit fest. That said teens are pretty good at making it to a toilet

  • 3 years ago

    Our master suite is an attic space slightly narrower than this room. We have the bed against the long wall, under the slanted ceiling. Our knee wall height is a bit shorter than yours but it is quite sufficient for my 6 foot tall husband. We mounted the television on the slanted portion of the ceiling opposite the bed. That decision was made early enough that we were able to add an outlet at the correct location. 

    Storage is a challenge in that space. Our hanging items are in a closet by the staircase and everything else is shelving or cupboards built into the knee wall space. Previous owners had a large closet built along the knee wall but we removed it. The room looked wrong with the walls being different heights and different spacing from the window. 

    This room would look cute with a pair of closets flanking the window and a built in desk or window seat between them. However, that is probably more involved than desired unless your daughter wants to tackle the DIY project.

  • 3 years ago

    @JAN MOYER My (now) husband and I lived in a rental apartment for ten years where we had to cross the house and go down a set of stairs to reach the bathroom from the bedroom. There were lots of other reasons that apartment was a great deal and once we got used to it we barely thought about it (although now we own our own home with a bathroom just across the hall from our bedroom it feels like a glorious luxury). We were there through most of our 20s and yes, there was some post-party barfing. We managed. I don't think the bathroom on a different floor is a big deal at all.


    I too would have been THRILLED with this space as a teen! I agree with the bed on a side wall rather than under the window and i love the idea of fabric draping from the sloped ceiling like a canopy. My teenage taste would have painted the walls a dark colour and had a bunch of twinkle lights and rock band posters plus a hangout area with beanbags and lounge-y cushions/couch-y things low to the floor over near the window.

  • 3 years ago

    Yes! Well we just painted today she chose a very subtle creamy white color surprisingly! It was called shaved coconut. She doesn’t seem to mind having to go downstairs for the bathroom

  • 3 years ago

    Wonderful! That sounds like a great color. :)

  • 3 years ago

    Y’all make me laugh’ trust me if my daughter was gonna barf she’d be in my room waking me up loooooong before! In fact she suffers from bad anxiety and emetaphobia (the extreme fear of vomiting) we don’t even speak that word in this house lol! There is no bathrokm up there but she has not complained at all about it. She loves having her own private space! We had a blast together today painting…dancing…. Singing ….talking! She chose a creamy white color called shaved coconut. Very soft and neutral. We are going to take your advice and move the bed to the side wall, tv and dresser opposite side wall and I’m going to get her macrame curtains I saw on Amazon and put curtain fairy lights in it. And for Xmas I found cute macrame chairs I’d like to get her two of them to put by the window and maybe a cute boho rug. My husband made her a wooden bench for the foot of her bed. She loved the idea about the tapestry coming over the bed. Just have to find a nice one. Still need to find a solution for the ugly clothes rack. Maybe just something prettier. I also love the idea of flanking the sides of window with storage but that will come in time.

  • 3 years ago

    These the chairs I found I think they’d go perfectly. I’d love one of the swings instead but I don’t think my husband wants to put it in the ceiling the house is brand new so he’s being like a protective house dad! Lol

  • 3 years ago

    I love macrame curtains — I have one in my bathroom, and got my DD one for her apt. She still likes for mom to help decorate.

    This room is going to be awesome! And you’re making great memories, too. :)

  • 3 years ago

    Thank you jinx! It will be beautiful. (And expensive!) but we had fun today! And she’s happy. She worked really hard cleaning up and trying to get organized too! We are finally on a roll.

  • 3 years ago

    Do you think I can do something like this draped over her bed or would the tassels at the bottom hang down

  • 3 years ago

    Or should I stick to something like this?

  • 3 years ago

    I’m worried those chairs are little kid sized and not regular.

    I prefer the first over second for above bed

  • 3 years ago

    Ok so macrame over the bed and I need to check the size of the chairs. I did read reviews and they said tgey can hold up to 200 lbs. but I’m going to double check the dimensions. So do you think the macrame tapestry will be ok draped over the bed without the bottom tassels hanging all funky?

  • 3 years ago
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    I have a similar macrame hanging in one of our guest rooms. I have a lot of art in the rest of the room, so just wanted a simple textile over the bed:

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    Let me know when you see this, Ashley, I’m going to delete the picture after you do. Just wanted to show how it could look. :)

  • 3 years ago

    It’s 78”x50” and her bed is a full size bed

  • 3 years ago

    Also if I do macrame curtains on window will it be too much with this macrame over the bed?

  • 3 years ago

    Yes, I wouldn’t do both.

  • 3 years ago

    Yes I see that! I love it! Her wall slopes so I was going try to hang rods and drape it like in the pics someone sent me earlier in this post

  • 3 years ago

    Something like this

  • 3 years ago
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    Oh, love that! I’d find a lovely fabric rather than macrame for that look. So pretty!

  • 3 years ago

    Ok perfect!!!! Thank you! I just sent my daughter a bunch that I found so I’ll see what one she likes best

  • 3 years ago
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    For an ok draping over rod, what about a duvet cover? has a somewhat wide outer edge seam.

    Some are reversible - the small awning portion could 'show' pattern on the reverse side.

  • 3 years ago
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    Nice to have matching shams.

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BDZHX6XL/ref=sspa_dk_detail_5

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  • 3 years ago

    You mention she hates the rolling clothes rack, but will need somewhere to hang her clothes. With the new set--up, is there any way to screen the rack from view so she can step behind it to access her clothes?








  • 3 years ago

    Grey on one side, pink on other.... some have pom pom edges, not too excessive a look?

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B094FLHQQY/ref=sspa_dk_detail_3

  • 3 years ago

    Oooo I LOVE that idea!!!!

  • 3 years ago
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    I will like seeing it done - please post a photo - no judgments. If fabric ends up flimsy might be fine with the delicate pinks in the room and could add 'heavy' tassels on the 2 awning corners, or add several all across... you know.... or bead-lengths! now I'm into it. ;)

  • 3 years ago
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    You have options, just my findings - a rose deeper than bed can add good interest. Floor has some deep color...


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  • 3 years ago
    last modified: 3 years ago

    This cut shape like the window? you might still place bed there, with blackout velvety curtains...

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