I hope you took a large samples chip of BM Chantilly lace to the appliance store. The white Cafe appliances have a blue/cool tone and it will be quite obvious next to another white that isn't blue/cool. Chantilly Lace isn't blue/cool.

Site painted white cabinets will probably not be very durable with a young family, but you can always have them repainted in the future.

Have you seen this post?

https://www.kylieminteriors.ca/the-best-cabinet-paint-colors-to-go-with-ge-cafe-white-appliances/

Yes. I had read a design page that said it would be different but compliment. But, I can see your point and that’s what has me thinking. I think the different whites may drive me nuts so I maybe should switch to a more obvious difference in color.

I did read that article. It was helpful to me. The chantilly lace seemed like the prettiest white if I went white.