What a beautiful story! Connie you are a special lady. What a cozy looking cottage. Love the dogs and the farm animals. A lot of hard work,I'm sure your Mom is looking down on you with a big smile.

What a beautiful story! A charming place. Love the details: scalloped shelves, beds by the window, locally made quilt.

This was such a beautiful story! I wish I could go there! Would love to take my sister for a sister trip! I love the house, geese, and dogs!

This is the best story I have ever read on Houzz. What a heartfelt reflection on love, family, art, connecting to the land, and a sense of belonging to a place. I loved it all, including the beautiful restoration and gardens and the animals. I have a fondness and nostalgia for the rural Midwest, after growing up in Indiana and living for a time in Illinois, and now being in Texas. I am an artist and was touched by Patty and Connie's story. My paintings relate to farms and the simplicity of the rural landscape, so this was a real treat. Thank you for sharing.

Oh that picture of Bella and the gosling nose to nose needs to be framed and hung on the wall somewhere.

Great story. Adorable house, farm, furnishings &... Pyrs!
I used to have Pyrs growing up & they're such wonderful, gentle dogs.

Amazing, the evolution of a love story, with family, place, history, art, dogs and geese as the principle characters.

Thank you for sharing such a moving story and the photos of a very creative home renovation. I love that so much was done to keep the home true to its original time, place and style. And most of all I love the story of a daughter returning home to care for her mother dealing with a difficult and challenging disease. Her warmth and ability to cope with so many obstacles, using them to advantage when possible, really shines through.

Connie is a strong, creative woman was raised by another strong, creative woman! I had tears welling up a couple of times while reading this beautiful story. Touching and upbeat at the same time. I absolutely love the interior. It's a farmhouse without the cutesy mass-produced fake touches. That's what sourcing at local sales gets you -- authenticity. You just can't beat authenticity no matter what the style is. But then Connie and Patty impress me as authentic people so it's natural that the results of their work would be as well. The farm was truly a labor of love and it shows.

I agree with the previous commenter -- I can't wait to book this for a sister trip!

BTW -- Kudos to the author for a well-written story!

I love Carl Larson. She really got the look in the kitchen.

Whats on the bathroom windows and where can I get some?

What a charming, compelling story--one can't help but be drawn in. Most of all, I love the demonstration of how a resourceful person gets by--a little bit of gardening, a foot in the hospitality biz, some goosericulture (yes it's a word. Because I said so that's why), and most endearing, the constant scavenging for local finds.

Beautiful story, home, land, dogs, life!

such happy mayhem. the first believeable "farmhouse-styled kitchen" i've seen in a long time. yes, lets bring scalloped-edged shelves back.

Love the story it brought tears for the love of home and Mother !

I totally love this place. it's so welcoming, warm, comfy, inviting. Connie has done an amazing job with her whole life--the house, the gardens, the geese and dogs. I love that the house doesn't look decorated--it looks like a well-loved space that has been furnished over the years. The picture of Belle with the gosling is the best! Maybe sometime she will show us her space in the barn.

My eyes are little tired today so I almost passed over this story. So grateful that didn't happen.

There's so much to love here, I don't know where to begin. But I'll be brief: One house like this is worth a thousand slickly staged mansions.

Such an inspirational and heartwarming story.. Connie has created a true haven. Kudos to her!

Great story. When going through the photos, I did a double take on the kitchen- it looked like a late 50's Kodachrome of what would have then been then a brand new kitchen.

I was surprised how emotional I became as I read this story today. This has to be one of the best and unique stories on Houzz. The story and photos display the many connections of love between family, friends, and animals - all because of love for the land and the little cottage. I hope Connie finds many more years of happiness here. Bravo!

may be this house born from a sad story but the charm of loveing family and nature made this house inspiring .... i love your house its lovely

A beautiful cozy house and a lovely story...... Good job

Love the story about Belle the rescue dog, who then became a protector of the family.

thank you all for your comments. I was crying myself when I read Mary Jo's article here. It brought up a lot of memories for me.

Sharing the farm with others was a big deal for my mom. She always wanted people to be down here and appreciating it. So this cottage B&B that I created out of her home really kind of honors that love of hers. As does this article! I really appreciate your kind words & interest.

It's all been quite an adventure.

The amazing photographer is from the area, Carmen Troesser, who did the majority of these photos. Her dad still farms their acreage here. Roots run really deeply in this community.

Yet, friends came from as far away as New York (Andrea), Chgo (Steve), St Louis (George & his son and Emiliano and Jesus) and stayed for as along as three months to work on the cottage and help around the farm. Local friends pitched in with painting and doing so much of the grunt work. My niece from Mn came with her mom & friends to install trim work and paint paint paint in the Missouri hot summers.

My gratitude level is off the charts, to my friends and family, as well as you. This was not a solo venture by any means. That everyone saw something to believe in and help with is what makes it so special.

The area is so beautiful and such a foodie's paradise (we even have local caviar!) and so authentic, on top of being a celebrated wine region, it's still an overlooked gem that I hope people embrace.

And while we all want it to be discovered and celebrated for what it "still is", I think we all love and want to keep it's quiet lifestyle as well. I hope you have a chance to visit this area, because it's so beautiful.

THANK YOU Mary Jo, Connie and Carmen for sharing this beautiful story with us. I teared up too. Thank you Connie for your comment:) What a wonderful home and business you have. I would love to have a BnB too! I understand the desire to share a community but not want it to be over run or lose its true old fashioned character.

connie's story is heart warming and reassuring in a world which is getting infinitely selfish..she made choices from her heart and thats really touching. i read each word from this article. God bless her and her home

What a great story AND a great name! I too am a "Connie Cunningham" from Chicago! I only wish I was half as talented!

I was so moved reading Connie's journey, tears welled in my eyes several times. This is a beautiful love story.

Wow Wow Wow - What a beautiful story.

All respect.

What a beautiful, moving story. I fell in love with the house, the land, the geese, the dogs. I am also caring for a mother with Alzheimer's. It is a difficult path but I wouldn't change a thing. Thank you so much for sharing.

Wow! This was especially touching since I lost my Dad , an artist, to Alzheimer's. What a beautiful way to work through grief.

I had smile at all the scallop edging that fit beautifully but is the first thing many Houzzers say get rid of in kitchen renovations. It is perfect in this application.

Yes, the place is magical because it,s a reflection of the rare and wonderful spirit of their owners, they mention their wonderful friends but as you read the story who wouldn't feel lucky to be one of them. The restoration came out beautiful , the land is incredible , thank you for sharing

Connie, your story gives me hope for our little Farmlet in Freedom Hills! I wish you were here to consult and to guide me through our redo. You have such impeccable taste! Thank you for sharing the link with me my friend!
~Lynda

I am in love with the first photo, showing the green house with the red door and dark trim nestling peacefully in its beautiful snowy landscape. Absolutely gorgeous--the original should be printed in at least an 8x10 size (bigger would be even better) and displayed, with copies for sale. I'd buy one in a heartbeat! The rest of the photos and the story itself are genuinely heartwarming, but for me it's this exterior photo that sums up all of the rest. Connie, kudos on your adoption of a rescued dog. I wish every dog lover would adopt at least one rescued dog--the world would be a much lovelier and happier place.

wonderful all around!

Tamitalky-

LOL.. Im a sucker for rescue dogs. All three of the working Pyrenees are rescues, as is my cocker and blind hound dog below. I foster when I can. Yes! every one needs rescues! I agree. I figure from here on in I will be adopting only the ancient, three legged, one eyed dogs. ;-) Look at this face.... who wouldn't want him. Best boy ever.

Lynda, I Will always remember your call about Polly losing her goslings and you replacing them. I love your Polly.

I have never suggested that my husband read a houzz story before this, but handed my tablet over to him immediately after finishing. Thank you. Every part of it was a gift. I could meditate on Patty's last words for a long, long time.

Connie I love the house and story. I also renovate a vacation home, 135y.o. house, and this article was very inspiring. I pinned this picture to do in my house and I thought maybe you'll find it interesting, too, for your old clock. I just imagine how many good memories it can evoke, and there can be 13 instead of 12 pictures.

I've been taking a break from houzz lately because of the staged, gazillion dollar estates usually shown. I love this human interest story that made me feel connected to Connie and her home. I wish and sincerely hope that houzz takes note of these lovely comments.

This is a beautiful story, thank you for sharing it. I can understand why Patty loved this property because it is gorgeous and the home is very charming. I love how Connie has joined together all her finds. This is something that is not easy to do. It is obvious she has done it with skill and love!

Your Mother sounds lovely. I've stayed in a few B and B's. I can only imagine the time and energy you've spent. It shows with loving detail.

Tears.

Mary Jo, you have masterfully written a piece blending a heartfelt story of family, love and house... The essence of "home."

Anyone know what kind of geese they are? Love this story!

crickhollowmd I raise Emdens for the Christmas market that we ship, cross country, direct to our customers. We also have a free ranged Chicken CSA for in state customers as well as turkeys. This area is dense with amazing foods, which is why I call it a foodies paradise. Everything from locally harvested wild sturgeon caviar, pastured veal, pastured beef, pastured hogs, amazing smokehouses with regional meats, etc...

We have loads of local small town festivals all summer and fall that feature foods from the area as well as a Taste of Osage County festival, featuring all these amazing foods and the culture. (yes, that was a very open invitation for everyone to come and experience these things first hand)

again, many thanks for all the positive feedback on the cottage and the very kind understanding of caretaking. And yes, the work was done on a budget..lol.... lots of craigslist finds and antique stores and estate & barn sales buys made it in to the cottage.

Touchful story.... Love this story :-)

May you blessed. May your days be filled with loving thoughts of mom. Thank you for sharing. You were so lucky to have that time

Great mastery of color. Oh, those dogs. So sweet.

I read Houzz every day as I have my morning coffee, after I've fed our horses and chickens and visited with our Great Pyrenees, Norah. The one day I couldn't read the day's articles just happens to have the best Houzz story EVER. Thanks, Connie, for mentioning this on the Livestock Guardian Dog Facebook page. In addition to sharing your beautiful home, I'm so happy you had this opportunity to share these incredible dogs with Houzz readers. Norah constantly amazes us with her devotion to her livestock (including my husband and me) and her protective instincts.

sbkh, we are so privileged to work with Pyrenees on farms, aren't we? They are rare creatures.

It looks like there's some film on the bathroom window. Is there? What is it? Where did you get it?

Love the house.

This is what the term "labor of love" means. Beautiful story, and such a quaint home.

I had all but quit reading the stories on Houzz but after reading this I may have to start again.

What a wonderful story to share. Wonderful home, land and person. May God bless you, your home, your business and your animals. I have tears but a smile too.

Thank you for the lovely story, warmed my heart with every bit of it!

I can relate to Connie's connection to the land. When we left the Washington D.C. metro area for a new life in the mountains of rural Montana, we did not receive much support. Many of our friends and family thought we were making a terrible mistake. Rural life with harsh weather, cougars, grizzly bears and coyotes has its challenges and a big learning curve. It also involves a lot of hard physical work. We have given up many conveniences this city girl enjoyed. However, the gorgeous mountains greet us everyday, my children pick flowers in the meadow, play in the creek and ride their horses. We even adopted a Great Pyrenees, who was ill, abandoned and had suffered a nervous breakdown.

Gratefully, the Costco is about 30 miles away!

I truly admire Connie's choices and her devotion to her Mom and their family home.

Sigrid- the bathroom windows are one of the things I kept of my mom's artwork. They are sandblasted and then lightly painted in pastels. It is wisteria vines that she designed on them.

What a beautiful, heartwarming, touching story!
Connie, if i lived in the USA instead of South Africa, I would be rounding up a few close friends and a pile of books and booking a stay at your charming B&B. I'd love to bring my dogs too, I can just imagine them loving the whole environment, but suspect that's not on - too much temptation for them with all those geese around...!

This Connie Cunningham gal sure seems like a hellava worker bee! She has truly made lemonade from lemons.

Who amongst us (especially women) can't relate to being a caregiver: of our parents, of our land and homes, of everything it seems, oftimes, but ourselves.

Connie was hit as were many of us by hard times that came in 2007. It wasn't easy and many of us are still rebuilding.But her resilience speaks to the kind of resilience that is the essence of the American pioneer spirit, especially as we have considered it in the heartland.

Don't we all want to visit there and sink deep into a beckoning mattress where we can fade into gentle sleep comforted by a night alive with chirping crickets, shooting stars, and rustling winds.

Don't we want to walk in the fields and take in the panorama of gaggles and white dogs and blue skies?

Might not a savory meal washed down with delicious local wine not complete us?

Good luck, my friend! It seems you have great chapters yet unwritten!

:)

Mary Jo you wrote about a wonderful family of strong woman. It is all about love, loyalty, hard work . So inspiring...I am overcome by emotion. Thank you for sharing. Good luck to Connie and her family.

dogs (and horses as of this fall) are welcome here.

I couldn't imagine traveling without my spaniels and don't expect others to do that either.

* I do have rules, but its for the safety of all the animals here.

When I was in Chgo I always tried to find cabins etc where I could bring the dogs with me. So I know the feeling of frustration when place refuse them. Hey dogs need a break too-

I agree with all of the postings about Connie, her mom and friends! What I like most about the decor photos are the guest rooms, esp. the one with the two beds. It all looks cozy!

Thanks for sharing this, what a great story! You've done a great job restoring, and keeping the memories on the farm alive. I live in Illinois I hope to visit your BB sometime soon!

Ahhhh. A beautiful, comfortable, real, livable home complete with off-kilter walls and cabinets! No pale grey, steel and cold white here, nor modern fixtures and granite countertops showing off more money and trend-following than good ol' Missouri common sense. There already was love here in the concrete floor and wonky walls and each and every piece of pre-owned (or pre-loved) piece of furniture just added more heart. My guess is that a visitor can feel the soul of this wonderful home the minute they step over the threshold. I'll be revisiting these photos frequently for inspiration.

Houzz, if you want to keep and build a solid reader base, you will write more stories like this. This is the very best of the Houzz community.

drmentzer, I agree fully. This has to be my favorite story on here to date. I am inspired to see what I can now do with the forty acres we have bought in Texas along the Red River to build our retirement home on.

What a great story. Applause, applause.

What a beautiful, inspiring story!

What's a beautiful story, not only about the farm, the property but also about people, life and happiness.

Best article yet...love the story and loved the decour of the cottage. I can see why visitors do not want to leave....very enviting and warm.

This is the best story ever posted. Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful life! What a treasure you have - both in your heart and in your land!!

Great to see some love for a so-called "flyover" state. Many do not understand or appreciate the beauty of life here, even though our mountains are small and our beaches are on our lakes and rivers :) I grew up in SE Oklahoma and am still taken with the beauty on a spring day. Of course, there is always the advantage of still being able to afford a piece of land here too!

Great story! Great house! Great life! Living proof that love trumps money every time.

Such a beautiful EVERYTHING !

As I brush away tears, I couldn't help but feel the love Connie had for her mother. I'm sure each and every day held struggles for her in this endeavor, but looks like she was able to continue by seeing all the hidden blessings along the way.

Love, love this story. I'm already looking up the area and hope for a day to visit.

The first four photos of the landscape are stunning!! Kudos to the photographer for capturing this magical place. I could be so happy in this simple life surrounded by the geese and dogs!

Every part of this story is fascinating. The cottage looks amazing. The story behind the work in the rooms, the wonderful (I love!) dogs, the coyote and geese drama, and the idea of the 13-hour clock (making one!)-I couldn't stop reading! Connie, I'm sure your mom would be happy with everything! I would have loved to see some of her mural work, too, in the story.

I echo the praise for this article. It is by far the best I've read on Houzz and I am so glad I 'clicked' on it. I work with folks living with Alzheimer's and I get to see courageous family members, like Connie, every day. What a lovely legacy Patty has left in her farm and her family.

Fantastic story, Houzz....I want to go there!!!!

Really wonderful story and interiors. Thanks

This is meant to be funny; and yes, I am black. In the last picture, did the geese segregate themselves?

A beautiful story along side a very well thought out renovation, I'm so glad I read the whole thing!

Lovely story. So touched. The renovations look great as well.

BRAVO for sharing this lovely story and all that is woven in. A calming and inspiring read. THANK YOU!

This is my favorite story on Houzz! It really draws you back to those happier times of childhood. Before reading the comments I was thinking what a great place for a sister trip, others feel the same way.

Wonderful story and excellent job done creating a homey and comfortable place. I was considering booking a visit until I saw the "no children under 14" notice. :-(

My heart is warmer having read this story. Thank you.

charming, charming story. thank you for sharing in such detail.

Awesome story! RIP Patty and kudos Connie. Love the cottage.

Just amazing. BTW, I have been cooking goose the last few years and love the alternative to chicken, chicken, chicken.

I love everything about this story! <3

Absolutely wonderful in place and people!! If I could find a way to something similar, I would! The 'guest house' has everything and the story has the heart everyone should aspire to. Thank you for sharing your life with us!

Love every thing of it, the story, the house......Bravo

Beautiful story, beautiful home ...It made me cry and ponder many things in life about how lucky we all truly are and I everyday give thanks for the people in my life and the sweet things surrounding me, this story touched me deeply! { love your dogs and geese}

Congratulations on being such a fine daughter.....continued good luck and happiness in your little corner of the world......

Oh my. This. Exactly. You are living my dream. My husband and I have been looking for property to do just this, except no geese, but alpacas.

Well dang, that was REFRESHING! Life truly lived. Would love to meet you someday Connie.

Love it, including the big dog on the sofa.

This story was beautiful! What could be more uplifting and natural? Kudos!

Wow, love this article, story, and pictures! We are planning to build a "Barndominium" (barn on the first floor, us living above) and have thought what a cool project to be covered by a HOUZZ article! But it will be built on a shoestring with the money going into good bones, not pricey furnishings. Connie, you have shown, as have the comments, that much of the HOUZZ community loves and appreciated the down to earth decorating with its warm, inviting livability. Thank you for the inspiration.
Oh, and we will be taking our horses with us as well as having hens, dogs, cats and a mini donkey.

Just touched my heart. What a beautiful piece to read just after waking up. The values I cherish in my heart, love for family, tradition and making it all work in this day and age. Well done!!!

I don't have enough words. Hands down the best story ever! Loved every aspect of it.

I wish you much success with your B&B, Connie! What a magical and beautiful place to visit (and live). I'm sure all that stay with you feel it too. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

So enjoyed this wonderful, inspiring story of devotion to one's parent, heritage, animals and rural life.

Thank you for sharing your story and your home and life with us! I enjoyed it so much and would love to see your place and visit for the night. I am looking it up right now. Thank you! It was an amazing story to read!

The best post on Houzz ever.

This is such a beautiful story that has totally brought me to tears! (And the author did such a wonderful job of telling the story!) Thank you for sharing this! We need more stories like this in the world today!

Now I'm crying ... what a perfect farm ... love and a happy life to you Connie <3

First time I've read a story through - beautiful - thank you for sharing.

This has to be the best story attached to a remodel that Houzz has ever featured. What a great read. Thanks so much for sharing your personal journey with us! What a dreamy B & B. I would love to visit someday.

The cottage looks like a storybook house or something from a painting, so I'd say you more than achieved your goal. I'd expect Nora Bonesteel to live just over the hill. Kudos to you for reinventing a city gal into a successful farmer - it's not easy! I really enjoyed this article.

What a beautiful and compassionate story! The love of family and the simplicity of finding life success on a farm is a dream many of us are envious of, but fearful to try. I'm so glad to see that taking the risk has been such an amazing, challenging, yet delightful journey of peace and joy. Way to go!!

Connie, thanks for sharing your story. So reminiscent for me and my sister. We grew up farming in a holler in southeastern Kentucky. Our dad developed Alzheimers and came to live with me and my husband in 2005. We were able to keep him for two years. Those two years are the most precious I've had with him. He was always the perfect dad growing up. He was a coal miner, a loving husband and dad and extremely hard worker. Your comments about your mom's nature mimic my own about dad's nature with Alzheimers. He was never violent or angry or obstinate. He was always, to the end, very gentle, sweet, and compliant. He never complained and tried to help me help him. He was an avid photographer and I knew things were bad when he came to me and began asking me to unload and load the film into his camera. I'm happy to know that you were able to cherish those days with your mom as I do with my dad. Your farm is fantastic and beautiful. Good for you for taking a chance that most people would never have the courage to do! Keep up the good work and, who knows, maybe I'll get to stay at your B&B one day for a visit to your farm. BTW, I've included a pic of my grandparent's farm in southeastern Kentucky. My mother is sitting on the porch in the light green outfit. The others are my Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Grandparents... The old log house was built in the late 1700s. I still consider it to be the most glorious place on earth. :) Take care. Trish

Love it all. My Mom just passed away and was living with me, I wouldn't have changed anything even though tis not always easy or fun. Always satisfying. The decorating of the cottage is glorious !!!! Wonderful job all around, and , yes, you have fabulous friends !!!!

Houzz made me cry!!! Thank you for giving me perspective today, on what really matters and what is truly beautiful, inside and outside our homes. I have always loved Carl Larssen, thrift store treasure hunting, cozy cottages and dollhouses, the rural ideal, renos and the idea of a B&B...but your mother's last words, those are what stood out the most. This article, and the fact that it has similarly touched so many, has made my day!

The purpose of this home is life and love and as they have worked hard to create a livelihood based on love's requirements, they have found grace. I am happy that our world has Connie. I hope that those who work as caretakers of the ill and handicapped in less idyllic settings get celebrated in future stories.

To Mary Jo Bowling - Lovely words and pictures woven together to share a wonderful engaging story of Connie's journey, love for her mom, friends, family, pets, animals and farm home. To Connie - May your B&B and farm flourish!

What a wonderfully touching story. And a great testiment of the love of a daughter for her mother.

What an inspiring story. I want to be a future guest at your B&B.

What a delightful article! It made me want to get in my car and drive there tomorrow! Too bad it would take me four days to get there!

What a beautiful story and two amazing women! Much happiness to Connie and the farm.

Wonderful story. I'm a Chicago girl with family from rural Missouri, so it struck a chord. I'm also a dog rescue person, so the story of Belle made me a bit misty. Thanks for sharing this beautiful journey.

I'm also VERY curious about Connie's living space in the barn, but can understand her wanting to keep that private. But it sounds intriguing!

Outstanding photography along with a beautiful story. This reads like a story book.

This story was so magically told...it should be made into a movie!

I agree this week s the most heart warming story I've read on Houzz. I lived with my grandfather until he died. It was one of the most special times in my life as well. Connie seems not only loving, but a creative, hard-working, amazing individual. She has truly created an inviting sense of place with warmth and charm.

Mary Jo, thank you so much for writing Connie and Patty's story. This may be the best Houzz article I've read. You weaved the human story into the article and you didn't miss a beat describing the decor updates. What a heartwarming story about family and home. You are a skilled interviewer - we feel what Connie feels when she confides her distaste for B&Bs, the trust in her dogs when she goes to sleep, and there is something special when Connie talks about her mother. I thank Connie for sharing her story with us and wish all the best to her and her family.

This story touched me so much and a perfect example of family love! It may be freezing outside today but this story warmed my heart ! What a beautiful place!

WOW! Such a moving story!!! And so inspirational. I too am an 'urban girl' who has discovered heaven in the form of a small cabin downstate from Chicago. My husband loves to 'farm' it and plans on delving into aquaponics when we retire in another couple of years.... me, I wanted to turn it into an animal sanctuary ... We currently have city chickens, but plan on making them 'retire' with us down there. Ducks were a thought, but NOW I want geese (and guard dogs;) too. You truly inspired me Connie! Our place is ramshackle now, but there is much potential, so I will use your story as my muse! Thank You!

A beautiful story. Well told and one I won't soon forget. Gorgeous B&B. Connie is to be admired for her dedication to her mother, the land, the house, and the animals. How very blessed.

Of all the articles I've read on Houzz, this one evoked so much emotion for me. Several of the things in this story called up wonderful childhood memories for me when visiting my grandparents in Indiana as far back as 60 plus years ago. I applaud Connie for preserving the past while still updating the electrical, structural and plumbing issues. I absolutely love everything she chose to do with the house from the colors to the unique local finds she displayed. The combination created a warm inviting charming haven that is comforting to the soul. My goodness---I got that just from the spectacular photos and the beautifully written article. Imagine what it would be like to actually be there! Hats off to Carmen for stunning photography and to Mary Jo for an exceptionally written article. You touched my heart. Thank you for sharing your story, Connie, from the very loving relationship with your mom, to your love for the land, animals and creation of memories held dear. Well done....very well done indeed!

I agree with others who have written comments. For me this is THE BEST article ever published on Houzz. Not everyone can tell a deeply personal story about their home but when it is possible, it makes one realize the deeply personal meaning of "home. For some fortunate people like Connie, home is not just about the surface decoration but is also about the sense of place where the house exists.

This is the most beautiful, heart-warming, moving story I've read on Houzz, hands down. I cried through it all, including about Belle and the rest of the Great Pyrenees. Such strong women, all of them! I admire her for her strength and resourcefulness, and moved by her love and dedication to her mother. We should all be so lucky. That B&B and home was a labor of love, and the love continued to all living beings around and in it, to include the dogs and geese. Thank you for sharing this inspiring story with us.

Wonderul. What is the contact info? Would lovve to stay there.

Thank you so much for this beautiful story of life. The cottage is lovely; the landscape and photographs of the animals that inhabit are wonderful.

Charming! Wonderful story, it makes me miss my mother even more.

Lovely, thanks so much for sharing. Precious days indeed with your mom, and what a wonderful place to have evolved from it. Blessings Connie, may you and your dogs and geese bring beauty and peace for many years to come!

I am overwhelmed by the responses here. My Mom's birthday is in a few days, so hearing from all the other caregivers who have loved and lost their mom's is breaking my heart for al of you.

If my story resonates, it is because most of us have had such similar experiences. Thank you so much for you kind words and I wish I could write to each of you to say as much.

I made this video for the B&B website last month. It shows a lot of the same photos, but some others as well.

I can't really add much else after all the previous comments so beautifully expressed my feelings also. Maybe you have a book in this, Connie.

Gosh, I am soooo jealous ! ! Wonderful, Wonderful.

Lovely story. Thank you so much for sharing. Her decision to take care of her Mother clearly lead to a very full and rewarding life. The artistry she has displayed in decorating the cottage is inspiring. Bravo!

Labor of love comes to mind. I absolutely love the Craigslist find for the master bathroom--it made a wonderful sink area. The picture of the dog with the gosling is precious, I said and audible "awwwwh", so sweet!

Uh huh. That'll work. Definitely.

This presentation is great. It embodies everything that my wife and I are enjoying now. We moved to a small farmhouse on acreage east of Dallas. But the first time we laid eyes on the small rustic house nestled in the trees and fields, we were just captivated by the sense of peace. Living here we have enjoyed gardening, animals (including Sally Great Pyrenees, who was abandoned by the previous owner). Connie, I love everything in your house. I like the bed arrangement in the small room with the bookshelf. Your kitchen reminds me of my grandmother,s , a favorite place. I have either build or fashioned what I want tor the house in my workshop. Your presentation, is one of the few on houzz that reflects personal effort, love and not money. That too makes it special. Pictures, original outside, original kitchen viewed from front door, new view from front door, making faux beams in the shop, garden,

Love everything about this story!

As everyone has said; this is a wonderful and moving article. Your mom was very blessed with caring children (by the sounds of it) and she sounded like a wonderful person who had figured out how to live life to the fullest. (I found your comment about her pleasantness even in the face of Alzheimer’s interesting... it made me wonder if the aggression and wandering we hear about with people with Alzheimer's have less to do with the disease and more to do with people being trapped in a setting that isn't soul fulfilling. It is so touching that you were all there for your mom and made her final years so peaceful. I just lost my mother and so it touched it a chord.)

All the best to you, your family, your land/home and your animals.

Love your story and your old farm house. This is the kitchen in our old farm.

I love to see all the photos you are posting. Such great places. So many nice old homes out there.

What a great, heart-warming and inspiring story! Could be a movie! Thank-you for sharing, Mary Jo Bowling. And thanks to Connie for the wonderful look inside the process and place. Beautiful!!!

So inspiring, thanks for sharing such an intimate and magical story.

I'm so glad I read this story. For one, my mother is German, has Alzheimer's, and I am her sole care giver and she has always maintained she wants to stay in her home as long as she lives. The other interesting fact is she has a sister who lives in the Missouri German settlement town of Hermann, which was mentioned in this story and located close by. When Connie mentioned her mom was never suspicious, aggressive, or prone to wandering away, it reminded me so much of my own mother who likes her routine in her little home, being able to look out her picture window into her yard and see the flowers and trees. It's such a simple thing but when people tell me "She should be in a home", I always answer "She is...her own." My husband and I do as much as we can for her to honor her wishes of staying in her home, which is also my childhood home and holds special meaning for me, and now for him also. We are avid do it yourselfer's and love to work in our yard as well as inside the house (a 1947 cottage on California's central coast). We scour flea markets and yard sales to find one of a kind treasures and often repurpose them in new and fun ways. God Bless Connie for all the years she took care of her mom, the house, the dogs, and the geese. She is a talented, big hearted lady and I wish her many years of joy in her own little piece of paradise she (and her mom) have created. What a wonderful story. ♥

Love, love, love this story. Felt I was there. Beautifully done, both the farm house and the story.

Loved the story; especially how you cared for your mom. I missed that opportunity and yearned for time together as she was going downhill with her disease. However, she was able to play the piano, harmonica and Scrabble, almost to the end. When visiting every couple of months; we took her to her own hairdresser, church, out to eat and to see her sister and best friend. Doing all we could, when we could, was the best I could do. Thank you for sharing your precious story and I will dream of staying in your beautiful B&B one day soon.

This is one of the best stories I have read......I love Houzz because of these types of homes & stories. I lost my Mom before I was diagnoised with Stage III Cancer myself.....coming up on 9 years that many thought I would not have My dream is to build a barn home to live in and decorate like yours some where in Colorado. Big Dogs are also a must....I have 2 Labs that we have also rescued. We love to stay at old B&B's around the US, especially ones like yours!

I absolutely loved Connie's story, Connie's farm, photos, animals. Makes this Miami girl want to pack up and move tomorrow. Thank you so much for sharing her incredible journey.

What a beautiful story and what a blessing that Connie had this time with her mother. The house, the farm, the dogs are all so beautiful. The place screams "home". I could move in today and never leave. Thank you so much for sharing this heartfelt story with us.

Now THIS is home! The area, the home itself, the animals, the people, the kind touches

that turn a house into a home... all there. Heart, all the way!

I agree with others - this is the best story on Houzz to date. And I was thinking that before I got to the part about the rescue dogs. This must be a bit of heaven on earth.

Thank you for sharing. What a wonderful home and very much a labor of love.

Thanks for sharing your story. I enjoyed everything.

Yes, the best Houzz article to date. How clever to think of raising geese!

Understanding, brave and self-confident, who dares to start again,
to commit to a challenging but fruitful life. Respectable position.

This is a life I am always dreaming...

Thank you for sharing this lovely story, it was a gift to read.

What are the paint colors? How could I match them?

A heartwarming story of generosity and ingenuity!

Wow I can so relate to this! My mom who struggles with progressed dementia had an incredible piece of property in PA with a 1803 farmhouse on it that she turned into a B n B. Filled with antiques passed down from her mother (a collector and antique store owner) and others purchased along the way. This article touched my heart, brought back memories and gave me hope for the respect and attention to our history as well as hope for my own future. Dogs, animals, visitors, home restoration, farming, and living on the land... that's my kind of living!

Loved the story so much, I read it twice.

Connie, your story was so moving and beautiful. I was sure you had purchased your dogs from a breeder and to find out you adopted them, well you skyrocketed into hero status!! God will continue to bless you as you have blessed others!

The is the most beautiful story I've ever read on Houzz! thank you so much for sharing.

Beautiful story!! Love it

I just welled up with emotion when I read this story.

I agree with everyone who says this is the best Houzz article ever. Years ago House Beautiful magazine featured an article on the last page of each issue called "Thoughts of Home". I ALWAYS opened the magazine and went straight to the back to read that article. Eventually the magazine stopped that feature, and I stopped subscribing to the magazine not long after. Connie's story and this article reminds me so much of the "Thoughts of Home" articles. Thank you.

loved the entire story! thank you for sharing it

This read like a storybook. Fell in love with the people, the animals and the farm. Well done Houzz!

Beautiful story & a beautiful place

I want to hear and see more! Nothing to add, I agree with everything that everyone has said!

Agreed - the best story I've read on Houzz! I love Connie's artistic sensibility--what a beautiful home.

You are so special, I hope you know how proud of you your mother is!

A beautiful story of true love for a Mother and a Home. I can relate to... "the most important years of my life — they were happy, sad and satisfying all at the same time" (as my dear Mother lived with me for two years).

I have that same scalloped edge above the kitchen sink in my little beach cottage and my very favorite picture is the charming two bed alcove!! I too love Carl Larrson Connie!! God Bless you and your loved ones on the farm.

One cannot help but reiterate what everyone else felt - such a beautiful story. I wish you every success Connie - you have done a fabulous job and look so very happy in your chosen life - be proud

Such a beautiful story, thank you for sharing!

I am new here and this is only about the 20th story or so that I have read. But by far, it is my favorite! The story behind the house is really wonderful!

This has to be one of the best stories i ever read on Houzz. Thank you for sharing. The place is truly special and i wish you many years of owning this little piece of heaven.

The dogs are amazing :)

Great story!! Really well done, her Mom was lucky to have such a wonderful daughter.

This article, more than any other in houzz, generated in me a heavy nostalgic mood. My Dad, an Agriculturist, many decades ago during the summer months, took our family from NYC to a Mount Holly, New Jersey friend's family farm where he started his career.

BTW, Dad, relocated to the City from the countryside to "make his fortune" as Mom used to say, and as Devine Providence would have it, he modestly succeeded.

In those days, the automobile trip from the NYC to Mount Holly was over five hours so we always stayed the weekend. For a City kid, this occasional trip to the farm was a treat that most of my friends envied and that I to this day, treasure. Today, those vivid smells, vistas and experiences are golden ingots in my treasure chest of memories.

Mary Jo, the Bob Hope signature song - "Thanks for the memories" is apropos. . . thank you for a family oriented fine article replete with beautiful photography.

Love hearing this kind of story! I hope she has all that cement taken up to the old wood floors. Love to see the old come back.

I love this story, love that so many found it touched their hearts. So much about rural America is being lost, especially our agricultural industry. I know the small farm, farmers market economy is booming, but to really be able to afford to farm you need to have another way to bring in income like Connie here developed. Agritourism would allow many small farms to be financially solvent.

The niche market products are key and Connie is brilliant to have developed this goose industry.

We have been doing a similar thing, forty acres, built a cabin with our own milled wood, and a farm, eggs, bread, flowers and veggies. We were doing agritourism and I hope to again. Still working on some zoning issues. But we made a homey, recycled materials cabin surrounded by gardens. People would come here with many plans, but instead they would just relax. Rosemancreekranch.com

Thank you for sharing your beautiful and interesting story .. I especially liked the story of Belle .. the pictures were wonderful

It is impressive and moving what Connie did for her mom and to preserve her mom's dream and passion. Would love to visit there. This story has inspired me to follow my calling.

Ditto to all the comments above. Great story, interview, photos. Inspiring. So much better than all the "money is no object" renovations. Houzz needs more stuff like this.

I just love your story, and the farm and cottage.

I've had a book of Larsson's art since I was a child - it has always been one of my favourites. I would make up stories to go along with his paintings. I have always dreamed of owning a home like his. I wouldn't change a thing about your cottage! Beautiful. And the land does look absolutely magical - your mother was right! Thank you so much for sharing your home and your family's story. I feel very inspired today to make my Larsson home happen!

Thank you for sharing your story. It made me cry (which I did not expect while looking at photos on Houzz). Our last dog, Misty, was a Great Pyrenees and also a wonderful protector. I am thankful that there are others who love animals so much. Your mom must have been very proud!

Truly amazing story on so many levels! I got tears in my eyes, too. The connection to the land, the way her mom raised the kids to know how to work with tools and how well her life ended right where she wanted to be, the wonderful story of the dog, the house and the way it was remodeled, and all the friends pitching in, plus the goose farm. What a magical life and home!!!

What a beautiful B&B, beautiful animals, and beautiful story! It made me a little teary eyed. I have to agree with Ms. Cunningham's mother, that place certainly does look magical so peaceful.

A zillion comments here, and no wonder! This is my favorite Houzz story ever (and the kids are in love with the 2 bed bedroom).

This presentation has gone beyond Connie's wonderful house and has inspired a lot readers to share their appreciation of family members and including animals in their lives. Talking about Pyrenees as guardians. Our dog Sally is a constant companion of my wife, follows her everywhere. Picture is Jacqui working in the Blue Bonnets (Texas).

This really, truly is the best article on Houzz ever. I used to read every article; now I skim selectively or skip it entirely, so tired of the glitzy show homes. I'm very moved by the depth of humanity and authenticity in this article. Connie, thank you for inspiring us all to be good children and care takers to our parents, to embrace our towns and communities, and to emphasize relationships above all. You have had ample help and active support because you yourself are a devoted friend and family member to others. Inspiring in every way.

I've never read a story like this before on Houzz. I kept thinking how personal and heartwarming it was. More like Connie's story would be a blessing to so many. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your journey, Connie. And a special compliment to the Writer of this wonderful story. Keep it up!

Nice story :-) Connie has return to her roots. And she will always be peaceful with the decision she made. She has the Mother's gut in her. Love her for being thru to herself. Cheers. /peter foo from Malaysia.

Really touching story ... It was like photojournalism! Old only home to a warm colourful B&B...
You inspire me to transform my boring farm place to a social hub

I hope to see more of this decorating style on Houzz. Contemporary kitchens are great, but not everyone wants or can afford granite counters and Viking stoves. This article highlights not just a wonderful personal story, but a snapshot of what a "real" home can look like. Cozy, not cluttered, homey not homely. Thanks for such a wonderful inspiration - on many levels.

I usually just skim over the stories on Houzz but this one was really exceptional. It's a great story, almost like reading a novel or watching a movie. God Bless you in all you do

I loved this story! Thank you for sharing! I know this is a dumb question BUT: is the booming goose business because they are becoming more popular for food or eggs? Just curious.

Connie - you have made a home from your mother's love. We believe that the spirits of our loved ones lives around us here on the earth. You and your mother's story bears testimony of that. The land is blessed to have you to carry on your mother's legacy. It's a beautiful story. Like reading a good warm book. Thank you for sharing your story.

the goose business was started by my brother and me about 7 years ago. He is no longer involved with it. But yes, there is a niche market for goose, especially around the holidays. UKers have a traditional roast goose for Christmas as well as utilize the fat for cooking with. My mom and I loved roast goose fro Christmas, but it was totally the potato pancakes (fried in goose fat) the next day that we were hooked on. With applesauce and sour cream- omg...... SO good! Goose fat has a very high smoke temp, so potatoes get nice and crispy and browned cooking in it.

We ship geese all over the country. The turkeys and chickens are local (in state only) via a CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) that I run from the farm.

As for the eggs, I have a couple of chefs who like to play around with them. The geese only lay for about 2 months of the year. So, it is a limited supply. I always let a few hatch for the pet flock to take care of.

Connie - I grew up in a little town called Marthasville; a farming community just across the river from Hermann. You are living my dream -- a kindred spirit to be sure. I admire and envy your opportunity to be with your mother those final years. Difficult at times I am sure, but incredibly special too. I, too, thank you for sharing your story.

Best story I have ever read on Houzz!

The cottage is perfect. Great job. You will always have those years with your mother. So glad she was able to stay in her home. That delayed some of her symptoms by not changing her environment. Best wishes for you

I think the reason we all love this story is that it's about making a HOME, not just a house!

Best story and photos. This is the real thing. Homey, lovely, touching, inspiring.

Joanne from Malta (Europe)

A very emotional journey and experience blessed with so many things and people you should be grateful for! Would love to experience living in your farm..one day i will!

Such an amazing heartfelt story. I complete got lost reading it and studying the images. Truly unforgettable. Now I want to find more articles by Mary Jo! Houzz was very lucky to get this in their collection.

Thank you for sharing this story. Supports the concept that the USA, Miss Mary Jo in particular, are an amazing country. I doubt if there is a dry eye among the readers. Now, I want to see this place.

This is such a beautiful and inspiring story. Thank you for sharing your Mothers story...and yours. Love the dogs and geese!

Such a beautiful story! And amazing work on the place. What a cozy, tranquil getaway you've created!

That is just such a beautiful story, very well done . Big congratulations, on all your hard work. :-)

I would love to see more stories like this on Houzz.com. You have a beautiful spirit, Connie.

Thank you for sharing your life with the Houzz readers! It is an incredible tribute to your mama the things you have done, and the love you have given to the home and property. I am sure she is looking down at you, beaming with pride and saying, "That, Lord, is my wonderful daughter!"

What a wonderful story. It was exciting to me when you mentioned using one of Carl Larrson's prints as inspirations. I visited his home in Sweden several years ago when I went back to the home my grandmother was raised in. She like many immigrants came to the US just after 1900. I've read a number of books on the Swedes and love all you have done. What a beautiful place. Would enjoy coming there.

Here is a picture in front of her little houses Sweden.

Didn't realize the picture was going to upload later, so you gave two. Sorry 'bout that.

Awww:) What a touching and heart warming story to share:) Your love for your mom and for the land really is inspiring:)

those are great photos Gina

Anything that I could say seems redundant ... but, yes, this article struck a chord with me that no other has (although I've very much enjoyed many on Houzz). Like many others, I was brought to tears by the warmth of the human story of Connie and her mother, and her mother's connection to the land.

Having grown up on a small dairy farm in upstate NY in the 50's, this brought me back to the honesty and simplicity of that country life ... a life that fills the soul while it builds character and instills values. We worked hard, and we played hard ... not with toys, so much, but engaging with nature. One of my indelible memories of passing free time in the summer is of lying on my back in the grass, making pictures out of the clouds. I'm starting to ramble, my apologies ... but I want to sincerely thank Connie for sharing this. All the best to you in your venture. Also, kudos to the author on a very well written article.

This house makes you want to simplify ..

A wonderful heartfelt story - you are a lady after my own heart....putting family first, and using your natural talents to create a lifestyle that many will enjoy - people and animals! I wish you many years of success and enjoyment.

Beautiful story, Thank you for sharing!

Of all the stories I have read on Houzz, this one has had the biggest impact on me. Not only did the writer, Mary Jo Bowling, showcase a wonderful farm, she managed to add very personal details of how a house becomes a home. Thank you to Connie for allowing us a glimpse inside not only her home, but her life.

Connie, thank you for your reply! So very interesting! You are living my dream as well as the other commenters who have said this. I live in So. Cal and farming just doesn't exist here. I get funny looks when people find out I have chickens! My husband is a city guy and I am a country girl, so we won't be moving anytime soon, so I envy you!

I loved this story. Connie, we need more people like you in this world!

This story touches our hearts because it captures all the beauty of the human heart and this magnificent world in which we live. The Garden of Eden is right here on Earth, though most are unable to see it. Thank you for such a beautiful and memorable portrait in words and images. Well done.

This was by far, hands-down, my favorite story ever on house. Brought me to tears. The setting for her home is truly magical. Her story is beautiful. Her animals are joyful. And that house!! I want to go there with all of my children and just soak it all in — all of that love. Amazing.

Absolutely charming and beautiful.

I rarely read all the stories attached but this one caught me! Heart-warming story, lovely house and an amazing woman who has understood what truly matters in her life.

Wonderful and inspiring. Thanks for sharing.

Connie, you have done amazing things. I also stayed "put" most of my life to take care of my mom who also had dementia. Once she passed away I discovered this huge gaping hole in my heart and in my life which I am attempting to fill. Always having worked in offices, I am leaning now towards either a cupcake shop or buying an old house and opening a bed and breakfast in the quaint town of Mt. Airy NC, better known as "Mayberry". At my age, nearly 60, I guess I would call it life reimagined. Wish me luck! I am very impressed with all you accomplished for you....and for Connie.

I do wish you luck, jpompi, but I think you have heart and that's even more important!

jpompi- Im 54. For me it is about what I do with the life I have left, whatever amount it is. If you've been around long enough, you figure out that each day is what it's all about, right? So, just do it. We may as well spend our lives being who we want to be and doing what we want to. (at least that's what I think anyway) :-)

Good luck to you. Maybe you need to open a cupcake / b&b shop.

I love this story, and this house is gorgeous! Connie is extremely talented, and what a sweet woman.

Connie....
Methinks beekeeping would be a natural in amongst this myriad mix of magnificent.... as an adjunct to the mentioned features - esp the gardens and floral display areas as well as the BB theme. Natures busy pollinators could indeed provide natural nutrient of its best kind. Providing the platform for:
Fresh baked bread with home hived honey....
A cup o tea softly braced in a swirl of Natures nectar...
Some honey, with a dollop of bourbon served neat.... And all kinds of more....!!!. Fabulous story and an extraordinary construct of love Connie.... your journey is of the heart and has brought you home....
Warmest hopes, regards, wishes, and thoughts always,
,,,,,,Al

I feel like a just read a book! A heartwarming, charming book about mothers & daughters, life & loss, courage and creativity in the face of adversity. I'm smitten - with the women in the story, the dogs, the gardens and the oh, so welcoming home. There'd better be a sequel!

I'm guilty of a very grave oversight. This is not just a book....it's a picture book! The pictures are wonderful and truly deserve a mention. It's hard to choose a favourite. For me it's a stalemate between the inspiring shot of the verdant farmland and the heartwarming shot of Belle and the gosling. The photographs enhance the story and allow us to share in Connie's peaceable kingdom. Thanks so much!

This is really inspiring. What a beautiful place you've made in the world. Lovely. Lovely. Lovely.

This is an extremely inspirational story to never give up on your dreams

I want to visit. Having lived in rural upstate New York for many years and now having returned to urban Philadelphia this story calls me back to the simplicity of my rural life, including my love for decorating for comfort, gardening, my dogs and flea market finds. Your use of color, and texture are fantastic and love is evident, congrats to you, your mother and sister on a beautiful legacy and story

Inspirational! My favorite story on Houzz. Love the cubby beds.

I love, love, love this story, both of my parents died of dementia, (such a heart breaking disease to watch the ones you love so much daily decline!) but this was soooo wonderful to read!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to visit!!!!

I hope to see everyone who wants to visit, down here sometime! The readers who responded to the article are the exact ones who would be happiest in the cottage, on the farm & in this area. You "get it". You are who I built it for.

What an absolutely charming house. This is what I hope my future home looks like someday. If I'm ever in this area I would love to stay here :) You did such a fantastic job on keeping true to this home and I love the anecdotes about your mother, too. Beautiful!

I didn't want this story to end because it is about the strength of love, to a mom, friends, the land, a way if life, the animals.

While the Bed and Breakfast cottage it nice, it's the tenderness of a daughter's love that's beautiful.

Çok güzel!

What a touching and wonderful story! Looks like an idyllic life!

Very well written article, Mary Jo. Wonderful, realistic photography. And wow, Connie! You are amazing:) More like this please! So inspiring and relatable.

Thanks for sharing your photos and story. We too are farmers that with a similar aesthetic to yours. how nice to meet another Connie with great style!

What's left to say other than "thank you" for sharing such a lovely encouraging story. Would love to visit there some day.

What a great story! Thank you for sharing with us

Oh my, this has absolutely everything I love..Carl Larsson, rescue dogs, the workings of a friendly farm in a beautiful setting AND throw in the love of a mother and daughter, family and friends. This would make a beautiful movie. The story is certainly bitter sweet. I find it very refreshing. Thank you so much for sharing. It's very heartwarming to know there are places like this in the world. It's a modern day American farm that reminds me of rural Europe.

Love this story.

This is just about the most
poignant and uplifting narrative I have ever read on this site.

What triumphant account of love,
compassion, friendship, sacrifice, adjustment to loss, and honourable
perspective. Listening with my heart to your journey has reinforced the values
I believe in and the determination to pursue them even if unusual or
inconvenient, and not in keeping with secular wisdom or current trends. Yours
is a beautiful mind, with a beautiful life as a result: The wonderful nature
around you, the gorgeous geese, the beautiful cuddly dogs, the cottage, the
gardens – I can see the labour – but it is absolutely worth it! I salute you!!

Lovely story. My sister and I cared for our dad during his decline from Alzheimer's and know the challenge and rewards. He too was sweet and loving til the end. I also had a rescue dog who I think was part Pyrenees...

Wrong picture but that was Dad on his 93rd birthday shortly before he died. Here is my dog, Sky...

awwwwwww! so sweet. (both photos) :-)

What a wonderful, heartfelt story. Thanks for sharing!! Makes me want to own a B&B...maybe

carhoffgirl..... Im not a fan of B&Bs myself, because I don't like invading other people's space and it all feels weird to me to stay in some stranger's house. Plus, no one wants to have to get up early for a breakfast on their vacation (do they?) Nah....

So having the cottage as a full house rental, stocked with delicious local breakfast foods for guests to make at their own leisure seems like an easier way to do it. Plus some guests are very private and quiet & just want to get away from it all and not talk to anyone, others are extroverts who want to talk and tour the farm and meet the animals.... so it gives people their own place to return to after the day is done.

I know that is what I missed most in Chgo, just having a cabin to go away to and get some peace and quiet in a valley.

this is truly one of the greatest web sites there is

What a special lady and the most heart warming, unique story...loved all of it.

What an inspiring story! We just purchased our dream spot on Priest Lake in North Idaho. There is an old log cabin with a crazy foundation. A contractor suggested the best thing may be to just bull doze and start over. I can't do it! Although it's only been ours a month or so, I feel a kinship with it and a responsibility to the heritage of the lake to keep it and fix it up. This story has inspired me to "let it be" and allow creativity to make it a home. Thank you!!

You are so lucky ... it's beautiful !

Priest Lake is so beautiful, and its heritage is so wonderful (do you know the Nell Shipman story? Silent filmmaker extraordinaire? ) that I envy you!

stephsuko that is a wonderful looking cottage! Love the wood ceilings and floors.

I could see this beautiful, touching story becoming a documentary. Something of value.

May heaven bless you and your wonderful caring attitude.

Connie how about more photos around Christmas time? I bet it is pure magic in the winter. Wonderful story - thanks for sharing.

Bondsrus, I have some in my portfolio here on houzz. I am part of a Christmas tour that raises money for the food pantries. Its a lot of fun.

I gave up my profession and moved 3,000 plus miles to look after my mother who had Demetia. I never regretted doing so as we had nearly ten years together before she died and she was able to live the rest of her life in her own home, not in a nursing home. Initially I didn't like where she lived but I grew to like and made friends and some good neighbors.
I miss my friends from where I used to live but now I am retired I get to see them a couple of times a year.
Love your home and your commitment to your mom Good luck with the farm and the B&B

Can you or anyone assist me in finding the fabric or like on the sofa? I have been looking for similar for years! Many thanks. Linda@maaia.com

I must get a goose for my Pyr!

Love your story, We have some similarities. The chair your sitting in I restored 2 with same fabric. And my husband and I are building our dream home on the hunting land we purchased years ago. I also drive the same tractor to maintain the property. Houzz has been so very helpful with the process. Thanks

This is one of the best stories I've read on house. It's about love and renewal...and beauty. Thank you.

Loved this story. I agree with many others, the best I have read on Houzz. Thank you for sharing.

Wonderful story!

What a lovely home. I think this is one of the nicest I've seen on Houzz. And bless you for caring for your mom. My mother died suddenly and my dad just fell apart. My dad and I had a strained relationship, but I took care of him after her passing and I wouldn't trade that time for anything. I had a chance to love him all over again and it was wonderful. I'm so glad you and your mother had that time together. Your love for her shines in everything you had to say about her.

Inspiring and beautiful. What a great way to start the day--reading this.

I love your story and I love the rolling hills in the Little Dixie part of the state where this home is. Alot of Missouri's history resides in these Little Dixie counties north of the Ozarks and along the Missouri river. It's a popular area for river floats and "Sunday drives". You and your mother are incredible women. You give me hope and inspiration. I inherited a farm in northeast MO. The house was built by my great-great grandparents in 1880's but is too far decayed with no hope of restoring or putting in a B&B. The area is quite far from large populations with no major attractions. But it is always nice to dream. A nearby B&B in Bethel (a former German colony built in mid 1800's) also has it setup so that visitors can make their own breakfast. I prefer that kind of B&B. Thank you for your heartwarming story!!

One more thing, I included your mother in the present tense because I believe that she is with you in spirit. You are blessed.

What a beautiful presentation. It made me think that life is passing us by if we go through it too quickly. We all need to slow down and savor each day with appreciation for the smallest of things we are blessed to have in our lives.

I loved that story - love the farm and the geese and dogs. Best presentation I have ever read and seen on Houzz. Also agree with Connie that doing the same things every day and being in that environment is a very rewarding a life.

This summarizes my life plan for the days I have remaining on this earth. I trust God completely to make this happen if that is His plan for me. What a blessing! Thank you so much for sharing.

Beautiful home, beautiful life. You gave a lovely summary for the reason it all works: "It's almost exhausting to be this grateful".

I love the house but, more than that, I love the uplifting and inspiring story. Would love to see more stories like this on Houzz.

What I enjoyed most about this story is how it engaged us all (judging from the comments) and evoked so many similar responses. The power of love for the home, land, dog, sky, geese, and mostly mom, inspired us all. This story is the first thing I happened upon early this morning while I was sipping my coffee, counting on seeing something beautiful on houzz, and it left me thinking...perhaps the rural lifestyle was never on your bucket list, Connie, but now that I have heard your beautiful story, visiting your B and B might very well be added to mine!

What a wonderful story! One of the best ever Houzz!!

This beautiful video greeted me today. I thank that beautiful, thoughtful woman for sharing her wisdom, and her way of life. With gratitude, from me a big ol city slicker from New York city.

A great ideal for living. Loved this.

I loved this story. Thanks so much for sharing it.

What a fabulous place and a wonderful story!

The most beautiful kitchen Houzz has ever featured. It's homey, humble and filled with love. A real life story of the fruits of simplicity and humility in life and people.

This comes at a time where we too are shopping for a small farm where we could enjoy a saner way of life. There are also all kinds of questions to go along with that type of decision and your story just shows that it is possible, feasible, a lot of hard work but all so rewarding. Thank you.

The essence of your video and story is why being in the country and seeing life as it should be made me appreciate the country even more. I am on a similar path at the moment and found your words so lovely and true. None of us knows where our journey will take us and part of the positive adventure. I think the answer lies in realizing that giving more is always the best path to happiness. Your home is enchanting and your story, heartwarming and encouraging for those who cannot imagine the gifts that gratitude brings.

Thank you from Canada, want to come a stay some day!

Wow! So touched by this video and the sereneness of your farm. What work went into transforming your home. Sign us up for a stay at your bed & breakfast. Just beautiful!

Hands down the most honest, charming, wholesome, real, unpretentious story of real life and real people I have ever had a chance to read here on Houzz. It gets to you and make you see what it's important in life.

Beautiful! Just watching this was like taking a vacation!

Loved your story....my husband and I just purchased a farm, and we are so excited about it....my husband and boys love to fish and hunt, and looking forward to maybe raising a few chickens! I have been taking pix of the sky too, brought tears to my eyes when you mentioned it in your story....loved your story...enjoy your farm....We are sure going to enjoy ours! Thanks for sharing your story!

How delightful & wonder-FULL a story!

Lovely story. I will make sure my sisters both read it as well. Charming...

I am envious about your life and it is a great story. You are blessed. Perhaps you should write a book. Just a thought.

crying! what a beautiful story and home - a true home, full of happy memories and love.

You dear lady are living my dream. I hope to one day follow in your foot steps. B&B's are magical and yours has such a wonderful story behind it. I am sure your guests are spellbound at the property and the cottage....simply lovely.

Yes, I think there is a book here, Connie. How I wish that many young people could connect to some place like this--and literally find the earth. Urban/suburban people are so divorced from nature these days. This connects in so many ways for me--when I was a kid I had a Carl Larsson print of a child in a cubby bed and I have wanted that bed my whole life! My Welsh grandmother annually raised 40 head of Toulouse geese in Iowa (they did not have much land)--my father said the Armor Star man would come to Des Moines, and herd the live group onto the train, going to Chicago for the kosher market. (This would have been in the 1920s and 30s). Later, she would receive the feathers and feet back (never figured out that last part, why feet?) My father was not fond of being the "goose boy" when he was small, though--geese can be aggressive. Better job for the Great Pyrenees! My Dad also had Alzheimer’s, but was a gentleman to the end. He died of a heart attack, and apologized "for making a fuss." (Both so British and so Midwestern). What you have done (in every realm) is wonderful!

So beautiful in so many ways. The missing piece is honoring your bond with geese and stop hardening your heart.

What about a movie? Absolutely wonderful story, something for everyone. Best designer type story I have ever read. Thank you for sharing it.

Sounds like you bloomed where you were planted! I am a visual designer and I understand the beauty you created in your living spaces. I hope you get to read Animal Vegetable Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. You will have a garden if you don't already!

What a beautiful life!

love it!

Thank you for sharing your story. I haven't been able to cry since my mom passed on February 8, 2015. I didn't live with her but spent many weeks - months, actually, with her during the past 4 years. I was not close to her previously but she became so loving and was so very, very, grateful - to me, my sisters, her friends and God - it was indeed "soul nourishing" to be with her. I had thought of it as comforting and healing to be with her but your use of the words "soul nourishing" resonated with me so strongly. And your mom's last words "I love you. Thank you." brought the tears. I know if my mom could have spoken at the end, that's what she would have said. Thank you for sharing and helping me to finally cry.

OK, Houzz... I cried with the Ashton Kutcher mother/ basement story... and now you post this! More tears... beautiful story, lovely home!

I had to stop watching at the goose part.

This is a wonderful place to stay! Went there after husband returned from deployment in Afghanistan. It was exactly what he needed to unwind.

What a lovely place. I wish I were there! I loved the story, it made it all the more special.

Perfect n sharing a great touching story, about letting go of what we thing is the right thing to do instead of doing what we would choose and about bringing something back to glory visually! This is what I get to do in a form every day, helping my clients. Thank you of this share.

I first watched the video and it was awesome! Then I read the story and it was even more awesome! Thanks Ms. Connie, this made my day.

Chris

Warrenton, MO

I know exactly where Morrison MO is located. I lived in Hermann for several years and I am from Swiss/German descent. We are moving to Columbia MO, but I think we would truly love living in a rural area (as we did growing up) and enjoying the peace and contentment of country living. With the economy heading in the direction it is, I think owning a farm is smart. Those in the area of Morrison and Hermann, can live off the land and through the community. That's encouraging.

Loved reading this story the first time, really loved the Houzz TV footage and hearing Connie directly share the journey of she and her mother. My FAVORITE story ever on Houzz...the cottage, the farm, the renovation, the animals, the dogs, and the love shared. This is one very special place that I hope to visit someday. Thank you Connie for sharing your story with all of us, blessings to you and the memory of your mom.

Beautiful story, lovely cottage, wonderful life! My hope is that I find the same satisfaction in my 'retirement'!

Love the story! I wish more articles like this were posted. Also love the house atmosphere and decor.

Houzz give us more of this king of decorating. It is how we live. What a wonderful story.

I love the cubby beds and, in fact, the whole room....including the dog.

Life, Love and purpose ....How Very aptly named !
Loved everything about this story ...loving and talented daughter ....obviously a great mother ...those faces on the dogs ....and such good taste transforming all into a farmland -paradise I am booking a room just to give some hugs !!!!

Thank you for sharing such a wonderful video!

I watched the video and the mom and farm living story in general is wonderful. And yet I was wondering WHY is she raising geese? To kill them, right? Or someone else will? I just can't get past all the love love sentiment when I see, I realize that: Connie is raising these trusting innocent animals to be slaughtered and eaten. It's just weird to me that she is caressing one that has such soulful eyes and then tenderly carrying another one in her arms holding its foot, hopefully... not to the chopping block. I don't know, I just wish that with all this homey love love energy that it didn't have to end in the slaughter of these animals. Even if she sends them OUT to be killed. I know its better than being factory raised, yes, I know, I know, but still. No I am not a vegetarian but I just wish Connie had gotten into something more loving to make money to maintain herself abundantly living on this wonderful farm. The spiritual nature would then be so much more attractive, the surround so complete. I would never want to make money creating the ultimate death of animals, to raise them for slaughter. I couldn't do it. And God Forbid she sells the geese for their foie gras. THAT would be so icky icky terrible. Well, I would never be interested in staying at her place. Well, I never will anyway.

Loved this story. She's living my dream life in retirement. I love the house, the farm, the animals; just everything! It seems HOUSZZ is usually so contemporary to my taste and I love it when you have something right up my alley. Thank you!

Today I was missing my Mom. She has been gone for 15 months. She lived with us and I was by her side when she passed on. Here I am in Central Texas with antiques from my Mom's side of the family that are Pennsylvania Dutch from Lancaster Co., Pa. I enjoy the look of your home and it has given me a way to utilize my "treasures" in my home. Keep looking at those sunsets! Thanks for in inspiration!!.

What a sweet story! I'm originally from Chicago too, and recently lost my Mom. She lived with me for a few months before passing, so Connie's story resonates with me! We both loved dogs and Mom sure enjoyed my three, who were her guardian angels in her last months. Connie, you are living my dream. Blessings upon you for your beautiful testament to your Mom! PS. I loved the comment about geese being like "feathered cows", LOL!

Great bookshelf, run bedding

Connie is so blessed. She is living a dream come true, what a magnificent way to live. She enjoys her life. Connie is very inspirational. Her living room is beautiful and very colorful. I love the cubby beds.

Gibbeditime

You say, "No I am not a vegetarian but I just wish Connie had gotten into something more loving to make money to maintain herself abundantly living on this wonderful farm. The spiritual nature would then be so much more attractive, the surround so complete."

So, you eat meat, but you turn away from the raising of the animals; protecting them, having to heal or kill the injured and sick, the daily care, the familiarity of the individuals, butchering, processing, packaging and preserving the meats.

And so you miss out on the gratitude as well.

You don't know the familiar scent of the babies, nor have you buried your face in their fur & feathers, looked into their eyes, cried over an accidental death, cleaned out a wound with gentleness or celebrated in the unexpected births.

So, you know nothing of the "loving and spiritual nature" of what small farmers actually do day in and out. We are (in your own words) the ones actually living "abundant lives" and doing so with gratitude.

Farming is an honorable life. Please do not malign those who do this work. Or trivialize the work that they do every day. What I have witnessed here, in this small community of old farm families, is beauty and decency. The casual ease of people who live simply and honestly.

Who don't turn their heads, but instead bear witness. They bear witness every day, without flinching. Without turning away.

So, please do not come here. Do not stay here. And please do not go out into this community or talk to our farmers about their lack of "abundant living", do not visit their farms, meet their animals, watch their children learning from them or attend the church dinners. Where the farmers, butchers, laborers, fishermen, bakers, grandparents and children all sit at communal tables and celebrate this life here, this spiritually honest life.

We want all those "other" people to come here and visit with us instead please.

I love you even more now than I did when the first article came out Connie. How well said in your comments above. I am a small farmer and it is hard but honorable way to live your life. My animals give me such joy on a daily basis and I love them all - even if they end up on a dinner table eventually.

all of your comments have been very touching. At first I felt uncomfortable about being so open, but for the fact that I know so many of us in this "age bracket" are going thru, or have been thru, the loss of our parents.

And with that loss, we are left with this weirdly "changed life". Its hard and sad and we all go through it alone really. No one else can have our experiences and no one else can really know what we have been through. But hearing your stories told back to me helps.

"A burden shared, is a burdened halved".

The Houzz team was such a nice group to host here. They sat down to a goose dinner with me, talked food and family and were all very talented and fun to be with. The community is so excited to see this article and welcomes everyone to visit our region, full of culture, heritage, amazing foods, beautiful scenery and nice people.

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I am emotionally touched by your story. We are going through similar emotional challenges as well. My mother-in-law is showing first signs of alzheimers and my father who has lived a wonderful 93 years, is loosing the battle to pancreatic cancer as I type. My husband and I are both artists and are considering buying the home next door and turning our
remodeled home into a vacation rental. Houzz is full of ideas. Your decor is just up our alley and I will be
viewing again and again. (You've
got my plaid chairs! LOL) Thank you so much for sharing your story Connie.

What a beautiful story about living a simple life and creating a comfortable peacefull home.

Hi Connie - this is a kind of life I wish, ones I retire here in São Paulo - Brazil. God bless you . Kind regards from Elisabete

Wonderful story, made my day! Can't say it any better than everyone else has in the previous posts, best article ever on Houzz. Are you listening, Houzz? More stories like this, please. And Connie, a visit to your B&B is now on my bucket list!

congratulations on giving back and loving it. looks so simple and yet very rewarding. Ik its a ton of work!! have fun.

Connie,

Hi from Minnesota. Thank you for telling your story. The house, the dogs and the loving home are a celebration every day. Hard working Heaven!

Gibbedittome- I understand your concern for the animals. After all, it isn't easy to kill any animal. But if you are so concerned about the welfare of these animals then how can you NOT be a vegetarian? Do you have ANY idea what goes on in slaughterhouse's? It is in no way an easy thing to see and it causes me some distress; but I dont flinch and I still eat meat (on occasion). In fact I was impressed with Connie's thinking process in her decision to raise geese. By comparison to the large animals, poultry slaughter is less distressing.

My Dad grew up on a farm and couldn't understand why I gave my late diabetic cat insulin shots instead of putting her down. In his words "Its just a cat". But to his last days he remembers as a youth during the Depression having to shoot his own dog because it got into the neighbor's chicken house one too many times. It breaks my heart to think how it broke his heart. But...under the circumstances it had to be done. If you don't personally know anyone who lived through the Depression, you may not understand.

If you continue as an omnivore, then please recognize that animals need the best and most loving care that they can get while they are still alive on this earth. To chastise the subject of this story for loving and giving her best care to the geese while, in the same breath, claiming, to eat meat is hypocrisy at its best.

Hi Connie, I loved your story when I first read it, and love it even more now that I've watched the video. So many of us relate to your love of your mom and family. My sister (who lives overseas) helped me financially to build an extension (bedroom etc) to my house for our mother when we realised her memory was starting to fail. We managed to persuade her to move in almost 3 years ago. Despite my sadness that our mom is no longer the dynamic, independent person she used to be, I treasure having her here and am so aware of how precious this time is. Her love for us is as strong as ever and that is what makes it all so worthwhile.

This house is ABSOLUTELY PERFECT!!!! I have never seen a prettier place. Wow, wow, wow. I am head over heels in love.

For our guest room

Dina, you are right about the help from family and the need for help from family when it comes to elder-care of our parents. While the Houzz story is "my story" it isn't my sister's or brother's. Or for that matter- my mom's.

The siblings played crucial parts in all of this as well. Without them, nothing could have happened here. We couldn't keep our mom on her farm unless one of us moved in and the others were willing to take over financial issues for her AND me.

This new type of parental-caregiving we are all living through right now is expensive and time consuming and emotionally charged. I do know what others are going through. And it isn't all good. My friends were all going thru their mom-caregiving simultaneously and those experiences were entirely different than mine. And ended much earlier than mine did as well. They certainly didn't end up with a feature story on Houzz showcasing their work.

There are millions of "unsung heroes" out there are being caregivers, without help or a nod to their efforts.

So I'm a bit envious of you! You still have your mom with you. More than anything I miss the "goodnight, I'll see you in the morning" ritual.

;-)

Sigrid, so many entries, I haven't read them all so don't know if you have learned that Pattie, Connie's mom, has etched the glass in the bathroom window. Isn't it gorgeous! This was noted in the very first article about the farm.

I don't normally like the country look but this story really made me enjoy this space. Beautiful in soul and feel

When I saw the video for the first time I emailed Rick, the director, about how happy I was to see Spotty the Goose again, as she'd died just days after they left. She was an ancient goose. And I didn't remember them even filming that segment. I was carrying her to them to pet, so they could experience how soft and calm geese were.

Someone had thrown her and her sister over the fence into my flock years ago. Both already old and with rampant staph infections in their feet. (contagious to me and the other animals here) They had obviously been someone's pets so, instead of killing them, I took one to the Humane Society Ranch, where I showed them how to care for her infections and she was cured and eventually adopted out.

I didn't notice that the other one was in the flock, "Spotty", until a few more days. When I did, I felt silly taking another goose in and so cared for her myself, got the staph infection under control and she became the alpha goose in the pet flock, taking on protecting all new babies and showing them what to eat etc... She was such a good mom-goose.

After she injured her leg, she retired and became Uncle Bert's companion for the last year of her life. Bert hatched with a bum leg and lived his life out here as a pet. That's him in front and Spotty behind him. They were inseparable. Bert and I were used in an article about "Women in Farming". So, I had a good photo of him. Having Spotty on film was a super-

nice surprise

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Don't usually feel the need to comment. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your story reminds us all what life is and can be. In a nutshell ....very moving. You did an amazing transformation from the blank canvas you started with. WOW!

More farms and farmers please! Such a touching story of someone stopping their own life to help another person and then finding their true purpose and fulfilment. Thanks for sharing with us Connie!

This is truly the most relaxing, private, intriguing, and peaceful place we've ever gone to 'get away'. The interior furnishings and detail are perfect in every way and Connie's sense of design is flawless. The back deck is beautiful too. We fell head over heels in love the cottage, the farm, the surrounding towns, and with her precious dogs as well (Belle being my personal favorite). It's hard to write good things about Gosherd Valley Cottage because I'd (selfishly) like to keep it our little secret. We're on our way back in the Fall!

Sorry to keep posting. My boyfriend and I are planning a trip to the state fair with an eye on places to stay along the katy trail. It appears that Morrison is across the river from Katy Trail. Then it dawned on me that it's not too far from the put-in we used about 10 years ago to float the missouri river with a take out in Hermann. We ran into a couple who were kayaking from the mouth of the Missouri intent on ending in New Orleans. That's more original and longer than running just the Mississippi. I would imagine that you have had opportunity to see racers in the MR340. That's a fairly intense race.

morrison is west of hermann. it's about a 20 minute drive.

hwswthr

hmm.... you are correct in that Morrison is across the river from the Katy trail. I never think about that since the only crossing of the Missouri River is in Jefferson City or else Hermann. That's all, since we don't have a bridge in our county to cross the river. Or ferry.

Which has done two things 1) isolated the area regionally and geographically. 2) kept the region authentic and real. I like the fact that there is this flipside to that coin. (Because we really wanted a bridge!)

So, if someone is yearning for a real experience, an authentic experience, with nothing "touristy" about it, no fast food, no one looking like anything other than what and who they are? This is the place to come visit.

If the MR40 is a bike race on the Katy Trail, I haven't seen it. Because anything "on the other side of the river" is a world away. I have forgotten how weird that is from the outside viewpoint. I never understood that when Id visit here, but living here has changed that. hmm... thanks for reminding me to think about it again.

You probably put in at Chamois? They have a really nice riverside park there.

Well.... you should probably just come stay here when you are in the area :-)

It's a struggle for us as individuals and as communities to balance "progress" with the intention to live in the moment; to relish our surroundings, ourselves and our loved ones. Infrastructure like bridges makes getting around easier while attracting development. It is always a tough call about what will be best in the long run. For anyone wondering about this conversation, the Katy trail attracts tourists to the north side of the Missouri while the communities south of the river are less busy and more for enjoying the moment (most attractive to me!). But now the river itself is getting more attention as a "tourist" attraction partly due to Missouri River 340. It is a canoe/kayak race from Kansas City to St Charles. This year it is from Jul 28-31. Except for kansas city I hear it isn't a good event for viewing....unless you camp out along the river to view boaters at all hours of the day and night... It isn't my cup of tea but it's nice to know that more interest is being paid to the health and enjoyment of the Missouri river.

That's an interesting point about the river isolating the area somewhat. I just realized that may just be my favorite part of being there - though I never really thought about it that way before. I personally love the fact that being a little isolated keeps the region authentic and undisturbed. That's part of the beauty and charm of it all! From a convenience standpoint, it means we plan a little better before coming down. And, who needs fast food when there's farm fresh bacon and eggs waiting for us in the refrigerator as well as a pastry from a local bake shop and a bottle of wine from Adam Puchta Winery? Plus, if it were too easy to run to a McDonald's, we may never have discovered DeRailed and Hop's Hideaway (thanks, Connie)!

Gracie-Qs

I love the fact that you two went to Derailed and Hop's & Boob's and stayed within the community. It means so much to the area. More than you'd suspect. People "talk" about keeping money circulating within communities, but when you are living in one of those, you start seeing it first hand and appreciating how important it really is.

When I was a kid there weren't MdDonalds anywhere out in the countryside when we would go to our cabin, instead there were fruit stands and smokehouses and little eateries. That's why I love the bakery in Hermann, it isn't Dunkin Doughnuts. (they fold almond paste into their stollen dough) And the burgers at Derailed with those great fries.... and Hops has Sunday breakfast too, did you know that? I didn't til this last week.....lol. I need to know these things.

Im so going when my friends come next month. :-) Im pretty sure it is great. I wonder if they have waffles..... hmm.... Ill let you know how it is for your next stay.

hwswthr-

Hmm.... you are making me wonder why we don't rally around that event. That seems like a great opportunity for the towns along it to offer BBQ or refreshments etc... I'll have to look in to that.

Ditto to all the charming comments. I loved the beds, and the colors in the home, it is most certainly a happy and loving home.

CLEARLY your explanation was just right as we all seem to be touched deeply by it! Enduring a neurological disease, I soooo understand the soothingness of the rountine of taking care of animals and farm life. I do it on a minute scale comparatively, but just the same can sooooo relate to the peacefulness that is spoke!! Thankyou!

so happy to read this! i grew up on the farm, but left at 18 and didn't return to live here until my folks became ill. Dad left us first, and it was just mom and i for several years! it was wonderful to be with her and get to know her better when we were both grownups! it was work, but mom and i became very close. i remain on the farm, and have yet to figure out what type of livestock i may be able to handle. i recently added 4 chickens, so am going small, slow. really enjoyed the story! More like this please!

I really love that the owner didn't gut out every old and quirky thing in the house. I bought a 1946 adobe, and every contractor expects me to tear out all the old woodwork and walls. Everything looks at home in this house.

Deirdre, follow your instinct and don't let any contractor have his way. Old items have soul and character - a sensitivity to which the building industry lacks. I have regretted listening to my arrogant builder - he replaced a solid wood but slightly water-damaged stable door at the entry to my cottage with a flimsy, cheap new door, that despite my relatively small size I could kick through. I rejoice in having saved the rustic door leading to the cottage bathroom - stripped, re-painted in character by a paint technique lady, and with new rustic-style hardware, it is a feature in this small space.

First, great heartwarming & emotional, but happy story... and I wish my home felt so comfortable and cozy without feeling "messy". Second, I hope that just one of my children will care for me when I am in my end years with illness the way Connie cared for her mother. Third, I would rather eat the meat of an animal that was well loved and cared for than one that went to the butcher knowing nothing but misery! I agree with Connie and others in this matter. I have spoken to my sisters who both raise chickens, but they can't bring themselves to eat them... that's OK too... but I tell them: "it's OK to take them for food, but not for sport, and it's OK if you can't do the butchering yourself, but don't feel bad if you have to consume the body of an animal that you once gave much love to, because that is more than it would have gotten from a factory farm!" I recently purchase a small 11.2 acre equestrian residence with the intentions to start a small personal farm... but major home repairs and needed changes (to make it an efficient & comfortable home) need to be made. At the same time, I suffer with health problems that only became unbearable since moving here preventing me from making the transition of my field and trees into a place for chickens and goats to roam at their pleasure. I know too... how hard it is just to "begin" your farm: getting the fences in, clearing the brush, establishing the vegetable garden & flower beds... before you can even fathom building the appropriate shelters, coupes (for safety from predators at night), and water sources. Anyone who decides to have a farm is fortunate to have a barn and a garage already on site. Maintaining and caring for a farm, and the precious animals within takes one with strength, courage, stamina, compassion, invention, and a propensity to be able to remember all the important stuff you need to know to make it work. Congratulations to Connie for mastering all of this and staying strong through it all!!! And thank you for just being a "good person"... I wish I could meet and befriend someone like you locally!!! And I am young, so I didn't go through the depression but my parents did... and I learned a lot from them by how they did things and how they raised us... anyway... Connie, thanks for being YOU.

This is by far the best story in Houzz.

OH CONNIE. I saw your farm in another article on Houzz and now the video. It brought tears to my eyes because you are living my dream. I don't know who said the quote but it goes something like "You have to give up the life you have to have the life you were meant to have". You were blessed.

Dee Smith- you are in for an "adventure" Im thinking. That's what we call it anyway. ;-) Just pace yourself, that's all the advice I can give you. I have Fibro and so can only work a few hours at a time, then I have to rest, then back to work. So I end up working an 8 hour day, but in 2-3 hour chunks.

And yes, without infrastructure already existing, starting up is really hard. I was lucky enough to get a sizable grant from the Soil and Water Conservation District & USDA. Which helped immensely in getting fences installed and hydrants out into the fields. Look into what is available in your state via the Extension Services.

Good luck!

Hi Connie -- from what I've heard of past participants the MR340 competitors won't be paying attention to much else other than getting to the end. At one point, the record from Kansas city to St Charles was about 36 hrs. This year with the river level going down from flood there will be fewer logs and the water will be fast so times should be faster. It starts at 7:00 am on July 28 in Kaw Park(?) in KC, MO. A casual calculation of when the first paddlers might paddle past the river banks near Morrison is about 28 hrs after the start. Though the paddlers are focussed, their support teams will be driving the roads all along the river. I hear that it can be hectic for support teams. With 400 entrants and their support teams (some go without support!) the roads around the river might get busier with crazy drivers in trucks, vans, etc.

Wonderful story. Thank you.

What a warm, loving story and magnificent pictures of work so well done. Loved the picture in the livingroom with Belle on the couch, so cozy.