Try www.homedecorators.com. They have a beautiful gray/silver tufted headboard at a very reasonable price. I got a queen for less then $400. It is beautiful. The side tables I wanted a bit more contemporary. I found these absolutely beautiful mirrored nightstands at Target.com!!! (don't buy the one with the drawer, it is cheap looking). My decorator loved them. She couldn't believe it. They look very expensive, $79/each!! My room is a bit smaller, so I went with a built in electric wall fireplace found at www.electricfireplacesdirect.com "Dimplex 23" $499.00, free shipping. It has to be hardwired in to look nice, but my husband is sure he can do it. Can't wait to get it! My budget is limited, so I am doing what I can to make my room as similar as possible with Mr. Abrams room. Would love to have the same wallpaper, but cannot do! So Amazon has paintable textured wallpaper by York that is so pretty, can't wait to see it. I am going to build my own ottoman/table, look at www.pinterest.com, they have one where you use a pallet, the legs are less than $3.00 each at Lowe's. I found a very tall silver/beveled mirror at the homegoods store, so pretty, $99.00. JCP has a Royal velvet grommet drapes in gray/silver, they are out of stock in my size, but will order them and see how they look.
Now, the roman shades, see pinterest if you want to make your own, or I am thinking of using the etched glass film. Amazon has some beautiful self adhesive films that you can just peel off if you don't like them.
The rug is difficult. I want a shag rug. I ordered one from home decorators.com for my bedroom and it is beautiful. Great quality. Anyway, not sure if I should go with a honey white or pure white....
Can't wait to post a picture of the room when it is finished. So very fun! Thanks Mr. Abrams!