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As requested (deegw). Me in the dress…..now on to the handbag

eld6161
last year
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The dress has very thin silver stripes running through it.

The material is unusual for Tommy Bahama.



The last time I wore these sandals, i wore a navy dress. i used a navy clutch with

silver detail. i think I need and style, but what?

Comments (41)

  • mtnrdredux_gw
    last year

    You look great!


    Are you wedded (haha) to the shoes and looking for a bag? Or asking about both?

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  • Funkyart
    last year

    Looks great! I love the color on you.

    Going to have to think about a bag ...

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  • eld6161
    Original Author
    last year

    Mtn, unfortunately I have difficulty with shoes. These are super comfortable. And although I would prefer no t strap, it is what it is. Also DD advised no heels, for navigational purpses.

  • maddielee
    last year

    Very pretty.


    What will you need to carry in your bag, besides some tissues?

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  • Bumblebeez SC Zone 7
    last year


    Frankie clutch Anthropologie


    You look beautiful! Great dress! Sorry for the bad screenshot.....

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  • mtnrdredux_gw
    last year

    Also DD advised no heels, for navigational purposes.


    LOL. So you feel the navy clutch is too dark?


    I would do an upscale straw clutch with white or silver detailing.





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  • mtnrdredux_gw
    last year

    more, all NM... first 2 are my faves





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  • deegw
    last year

    Yay! The dress looks great. Thanks for indulging my nosiness :)

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  • happy2b…gw
    last year

    Everything about this dress flatters you. I love how the folds softly drape.

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  • eld6161
    Original Author
    last year

    Maddie, cell phone, lipstick lipstick, tissues, small brush

  • 3katz4me
    last year

    Love the dress and I think the shoes look nice too!

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  • OutsidePlaying
    last year
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    The dress looks great on you and the shoes will work. Do they slip off easily? For walking in the sand, I can understand being without shoes, but I would want shoes for anything else. I’m no help with bags but you have good suggestions already. I think navy would be too dark tho.

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  • Jilly
    last year

    It looks perfect on you!

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  • amykath
    last year

    That is a lovely dress and on you it is even lovelier! You have one of this nice tall lean figures that can pull off so many outfits.


    I like Mnt's idea of the straw clutches. The first two that are her faves are mine as well. I particularly like the first without handles.

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  • czarinalex
    last year

    You look great! Those shoes look good with the dress. For a beach wedding, a straw clutch would be appropriate.

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  • bbstx
    last year

    Are you going to be carrying flowers? Sometimes MOB/G carry little nosegays. If so, that would preclude a clutch for me. Too many things to juggle.

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  • Bumblebeez SC Zone 7
    last year

    Yes to an upscale embroidered straw clutch! And yes, no heels if it's on the beach. Without knowing the exact venue though, it's hard to tell how all this will play out. Are you going to be in a dressy lounge area in a resort also?

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  • maddielee
    last year

    Disclaimer: I love straw bags, but not for night.


    Is it an evening wedding? If so, I would go for a small silver or crystal bag. Maybe a clutch with a thin shoulder strap that you can use or not.


    Or something like,





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  • mtnrdredux_gw
    last year

    Hmm, interesting point; but I think a very shiny silver bag might look too formal for the dress?

    That's a pretty bag, Maddie.


    PS y'all will be glad to know I am not looking anymore because it is too expensive to "help"!

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  • nicole___
    last year

    Your beautiful!


    The purse: I'd match the shoes. In "this" case it would be a rich look to do so.

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  • dedtired
    last year

    You look lovely in that dress. The sandals are nice but something in a dark blue might look good. Also a pedicure in a beachy color. Will you be walking down the aisle with the bridal,party? I have a heck of a time with shoes, too.

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  • Funkyart
    last year

    Hey, I didn't even help and it is getting expensive for me .. love the Kayu bags (I landed on a tote!)


    I don't know that an evening bag and lots of sparkle work for a beach wedding -- but I am not completely sold on a straw bag. The straw with silver embroidery strikes a really nice balance-- beachy and elegant.

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  • blfenton
    last year

    The dress is a great choice for a beach wedding and it looks beautiful on you. Perfect length and the draping is so pretty.

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  • Yayagal
    last year

    The navy clutch with silver is a fine fit.

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  • Feathers11
    last year

    I love the dress! Beautiful pattern. You look wonderful!

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  • Kswl
    last year

    The dress is grest and you make it look even better! All the handbags suggested are adorable!

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  • DLM2000-GW
    last year

    I can't even dress and accessorize myself let alone someone else but I just wanted to say the dress is lovely and looks wonderful on you.

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  • Irish2
    last year

    YOU look great in the dress! I have no suggestions for bag other than agree on a straw clutch would work considering it is a beach wedding.

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  • eld6161
    Original Author
    last year
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    So happy everyone likes the dress!

    Ded, DD and fiance are planning everything. I’ll be surprised if the ceremony goes traditional. I'm fine whatever they decide.

  • jojoco
    last year

    You look beautiful. Not to minimize your efforts, but the right dress found you. (And could everyone stop posting such gorgeous bags??? I am finding it hard to stay focused on Eld!)

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  • gsciencechick
    last year

    Very nice in the dress! I like a lot of these bag suggestions, especially maddilee and 1929Spanish listings.

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  • User
    last year

    You look fantastic! Wow, heads are gonna turn! 😍

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  • carolb_w_fl_coastal_9b
    last year

    Looking good!

    And the fabric pattern reminds me a bit of oyster shells.

    I do think a wristlet bag in silver - &/or pearl - would be perfect.

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  • salonva
    last year

    Eld, you look absolutely wonderful in that dress. It's so right.


    I read through this thread to see all the suggestions for handbag, and most are not what I would have thought of, but the more I looked the more I liked these suggestions.

    To my surprise, I really like

    1 the Rodo straw clutch

    2 Kelsey clutch ( the 2nd link from Mtn)

    3- The blue Berno Poppies embroidered.


    For my daughter's wedding, I had a navy dress, navy and silver wedge sandals ( comfort and walkable) and I had a white floral beaded clutch that my mother had bought in France. The sentimental part made it a no brainer. The Blue Berno reminds me of that sort of.


    I think there is not a bad option in this thread.


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  • arkansas girl
    last year

    Very cute! Looks so much better on than hanging on the hanger. Love this way more than the blush color first attempted! I wouldn't be surprised if you could find the perfect purse at a thrift shop. Most people just use these type bags once and then never again.

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  • mtnrdredux_gw
    last year
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    Most people just use these type bags once and then never again.

    Exactly, that's why I suggested here (and in another thread on weddings) to try the online vendors. I have had good luck w/ The RealReal and Tradesy. Plus so much variety!

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  • georgiasugarplum
    last year

    Such a pretty dress! I think I would either use the navy / silver clutch that you already have, or a small silver clutch or wristlet like this





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  • Arapaho-Rd
    last year
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    You look great in that dress, eld! Very pretty, looks comfortable and perfect for a beach wedding. I totally get feet and trouble with shoes. I'd love to see that 1st straw/silver clutch from NM photoshopped w your dress/sandals!

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  • petalique
    last year

    Eld, I love that dress on you. You look lovely and ready to just walk out your door to the beach wedding. I like your sandals, and what a bonus that they are comfortable.


    I like Spanish’s bead bag and the georgiasugarplum one.


    You have great looking arms and shoulders, btw.

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