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Am I being a prick?

whaas_5a
11 years ago

I received a mail order the other day and one of the plants was in very poor health and was severely pot pound. Its one of those that if you threw the plant at the ground you wouldn't see a single bit of potting media on the ground as the roots are that compressed.

After mail ordering so so many plants I've come across alot of crap and for some reason this one bothered me as the nursery wouldn't acknowledge the real problem. Although I didn't complain about this the other plants had some root rot and no new roots so I was just unhappy in general.

Or am I just being a prick here? Believe me you won't hurt my feelings!lol!

Me:

Everything looks good and is already planted.

Although a nice sized plant the attached plant is in poor shade with a compressed root system.

Can you please credit my CC for this plant?

Nursery:

I'm glad that the plants arrived OK, but sorry that you are not pleased with this plant. There's really nothing wrong with it and breaking up the root system when planting it can't remedy. We do this all the time when we move smaller plants into larger containers. I'll attach the planting instructions, in case you missed them in the shipping box (we also suggest acclimating plants for a couple of days before planting them in the ground).

Me:

Thanks for the info. I'm a plant enthusiast and very familiar with teasing roots.

This plant has brown and yellow discoloration and the roots are so compressed I don't want to invest any time in this specimen. The roots literally can't absorb water and is nutrient deficient

It should have been up-potted to a 3 gallon pot a year ago.

I'd suggest checking your inventory of this plant and not sending others out.

Nursery:

We will do as you request, although I heartily disagree with you that the plant is worth nothing. I won't deny that it might not be fully-charged nutrient-wise, but then it would have just grown larger. I don't really see any nutrient deficiency in the newer leaves, but there is senescence on some of the older ones, which were likely shaded by adjoining plants or dried out during shipping. Those could be removed to improve the cosmetics of the plant. We don't promise that every plant we ship out will be beautiful, but know that all will grow well given the proper growing conditions.

As to the roots not absorbing water, a wetting agent, such as liquid dish soap, does wonders for water absorption (please read the planting instructions we sent). As an experienced plants-person, I'm sure you could revive it if you were so inclined, and I'm disappointed that you want to discard the plant and not give it a chance to grow for you (which I am confident that it would, except that it might not be hardy in WI, especially if planted in fall). You can tell that our philosophy is to not destroy any plant life, and sometimes that gets us into trouble, I guess.

Me:

Thanks for taking the time to provide additional info. I can tell you take pride in your plants and nursery and do understand your points.

I guess at the end of the day I don't think my time is worth vesting in a plant that is in poor health and severely pot bound.

Special care and hope shouldn't be part of the equation for a plant that wasn't properly up-potted.

I've gotten burned too many times trying to save severely pot bound plants and unfortunately don't have tolerance for them.

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Comments (32)

  • lisanti07028
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    That is a sad-looking plant. I know it's coming to the end of the season, but they should be ashamed of themselves for sending that out to begin with, and if they have any customer sense at all, they should credit you back and send UPS to pick it back up. Do they realize that you won't order from them again?
    There is no way a plant that size in a pot that small isn't severely root-bound; I'd like to know what the...heck they were thinking. So, no, you're not being an idiot. The only save would be if it cost $5.

  • houstontexas123
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    not sure what you have there, but doesn't look that rare or hard to get plant.

    that would be in the dumpster or 90% off rack at most of the local nurseries here.

  • ken_adrian Adrian MI cold Z5
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    do you want me to be honest.. or will you be a prick about it???

    let me know.. and i will decide whether to answer tomorrow ...

    ken

  • eahamel
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I know one nursery here that puts stuff like that outside its gates for people to pick up for free.

  • whaas_5a
    Original Author
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I too have never seen a plant look like that at retail unless its an end of season 75% off clearance item at a "chain" garden center. Its not that its only looking poor but its beyond extremely pot bound.

    The plant cost $25 after shipping.

    I'm just getting tired of some mail order companies trying to pawn off poor stock because they hope people won't complain or that is "should" be fine. Most fix it up front and apologize but here the nursery actually thought it was ok. That is why excessively pot pound stock is so rampant in the industry.

  • greyandamy
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    IF you are, I'd be the same, esp. now after being burnt by seemingly everything... At least it was a cheaper plant... but that's been my whole experience, plus the "helpful" sales person. But I don't expect... anymore... Not one mailorder place I ever got a bad plant from (most) ever fixed, except one from sooner (After 7 lost) and a ton of complaining, and a partial from Rare finds... along with a don't come back...one promised they'd send a new shipment in fall, lazy s's, nothing came, ever...

    What type of company is good anymore, whass?

    amy

  • rhizo_1 (North AL) zone 7
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    What's the genus, species of this plant?

  • gardener365
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Viburnum rhytidophyllum possibly?

    Whaas, don't know what to tell you other than (1st write the nursery and say you're going to attempt to correct the issue & that if the roots are too messed up, to refund the plant... at least you tried). I've dealt with these root issues and some are so bad that I've ripped off 1/2 of the root system trying to unwind some of the severely intertwined roots. At that point, it's to the dumpster. You're going to have to cut every single "J" root so it's straight again and you'll need to get into and see what the formation of roots are like in the inner of the rootball & especially-directly-underneath the root flare (of the rootbabll).

    You were sent a mess. It it isn't fixable, it isn't fixable.

    Dax

  • whaas_5a
    Original Author
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Amy, you lost me there. Are you saying none of the mail order companies you ordered from fixed their issues except Sooner?

    Dax, right on. V. r should look nothing like that. It looks ten times worse today. Not even sure why I threw it in the ground.

    At the end of the day most agree its a POS.

  • Blossom_Designer
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    If the nursery won't work with you, you might consider contacting the better business bureau in the city where the nursery is located. If that doesn't get results, you could try complaining to the state nursery association.

    You are not being a prick. Shame on that nursery.

  • greyandamy
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    yes whass, sonner fixed one of about 7, rare finds one...the rest blamed me, whatever, couldnt fight it.. too tired, or the window of time (24 hrs) to report missed b/c of health things, or i was criticized for ordering at wrong season, or trying to untangle roots when they didn't need to be... that was backpay from SSDI, that was over $4000... total... now as the saying goes, "*i** poor"..

    amy

  • denninmi
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Bottom line, you are the customer, they need to do what you want. If nothing else, at least credit the majority of the cost so it's dirt cheap, what it's worth from a big box clearance wrap.

    Plants are amazing, they can recover and thrive, but honestly, if it's a crap plant they sent you, it should be sold to you at the bare bones clearance price.

    So no, you're not a prick, your a dissatisfied customer. Been there, done that, you are just standing up for yourself. If the company is truly a good one, they will use it as a learning experience. May or may not happen, but in and ideal world would.

  • j0nd03
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    25 bux for that piece of crap and no replacement? I think it is about time you posted the name of the online vendor.

    John

  • ilovemytrees
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Raise the stakes, and do a charge-back on your credit card for the price of the plant. Merchants usually cave at that point.

    They no likey charge backs.

  • Thyme2dig NH Zone 5
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Bottom line is they wouldn't have to give you all sorts of special planting instructions if they sent out a healthy, non-rootbound plant. Just the fact that there was a list of how to's in order to help the plant along should prove to them there is a problem.

    I'm astounded by the response you got. Most times I've dealt with online nurseries there has never been an argument. With the mark-up on plant material it would have cost them very little to credit your card. Now is has cost them even more with the probable loss of a customer.

    Have you ordered from them before? If so, do they have your prior orders on record? Just curious if it's one of those nurseries where you have been a loyal, return customer and they stll blew you off. Nice of you to not "out" them on GW. You certainly don't owe them that courtesy.

  • poaky1
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I agree with the fact that it should've been largely discounted and only to those who can see it in person and then choose to take the chance on it. If it were me I would prune it alot and try to get to decent roots and plant it. I would imagine you did that anyway. You don't mention the nursery. If you were a prick you would be ranting and naming the company, which I didn't see in any of your posts. I would have to be a prick and name them. Or go on Daves garden website and give them a report.

  • calliope
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    It would have taken the sting out of if to have a nursery say before the fact that yes, indeed they have the stock you desire (when others may be past season and not have it) but it needs a bump-up. Do you want it now, and do that yourself, or do you want to let us do it and wait until next spring and get it in it's new container, at a higher price of course? And let you make the call.

    Nursery Associations are simply groups with lobbying power, voluntary memberships and designed to promote the trade. Why would you send a complaint to them?

    I agree with deninmi's statement. The point is that it does not meet your expectations.

  • Blossom_Designer
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    You would complain to the nursery association because it alerts them to this particular nursery's shady practices. If the shady nursery is a member of the nursery association, it might be banned from membership if the association received enough complaints. The association wouldn't its reputation tainted by a bad member. Word travels fast in the industry.

  • greenlarry
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Looks like Viburnum lanata to me, the Wayfaring Tree. In.very poor condition too!

  • arktrees
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    FWIW,
    I would have started out being nice, BUT that would have ended some time ago. Call them and tell them to make it right, or your doing a charge back, and oh yea, these other things were crap too, and I might have to charge those back as well. You do a charge back, and it cost them the money you spent with them, money to their banks, and can ultimately get their ability to accept credit cards revolved if it happens enough. Charge backs can have real teeth.

    BTW, I wonder if the company starts with an F in their name?

    Arktrees

  • flora_uk
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Greenlarry, V lantana has red berries. It is certainly a rubbish specimen.Maybe Viburnum rhytidophyllum ??

  • Embothrium
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    V. lantana produces a shorter, broader (relative to the length) leaf, one that is not so wrinkled-looking. This is leatherleaf viburnum or one of its hybrids. Looks to me like it got cooked during shipping.

  • ilovemytrees
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I think it would be more admirable if Whaas named the nursery in an effort to protect his fellow members here. We need to know who the nursery is because we can see what they are capable of, and how they don't stand behind their plants. When consumers are informed, everyone wins.

    Of course, Whaas's right to not name the nursery supersedes us knowing, but I just don't think it is right to tell us how bad this experience was, and not tell us who it is. It would be like if you were telling a friend that you ate at a restaurant and got horrible food poisoning from them and vomited for hours, and when they ask you what restaurant you say, oh I'm not going to tell, which is effectively setting up that person to possibly suffer the same experience!

  • greenlarry
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    @Flora, a V.lanata I had years ago had red berries that turned black when ripe, but I can see now the leaves are different.

  • calliope
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I belonged to a nursery association, and I suspect your complaint letters would end up deep sixed. They don't exist to field complaints. You have a legitimate complaint if the nursery stock does not meet certain specifications set up by the shipper's department of agriculture, and yes they do have stipulations on proper sized containers versus roots. All nursery stock producers are required to be inspected and even if it doesn't pertain to nursery stock, if there is interstate shipment of plant material it also falls under inspection criteria. If you are ordering online it might be a good idea to make sure you are ordering from a source who does indeed have a nursery license and are subject to inspection.

    I suspect this plant can indeed be teased and pruned, nursed and thrive, but if it has to be...........you shouldn't be paying the same price as one in it's prime and you should be forewarned. I have refused sales of stock I needed to work with, even when customers wanted to buy it, because my product spoke for my business and I wanted to make sure what it had to say was good.

  • Toronado3800 Zone 6 St Louis
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    " Bottom line, you are the customer, they need to do what you want. If nothing else, at least credit the majority of the cost so it's dirt cheap, what it's worth from a big box clearance wrap."

    It is a tough situation. I will debate for the sake of debating.

    Lets say my work sells new mattresses on the cheap. They have factory warranties but we do not mak enough margin to offer sleep trials where if a customer just doesnt like it they can return it. In that case.we would have a used worthless mattress back and have to pass that cost on to others.

    It is pretty straight forward and stated plainly but leads to me saying no and sorry and thinking the 75% extra the mall stores charge gives them more ability to satisfy customers. Plus, ever wonder what theh do with the used mattresses? Check for law tags.

    In this case, I dunno Whaas. Just chalk it up to lesson learned and warn your friends on GW so they know what to expect.

  • whaas_5a
    Original Author
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    All, thanks for the input. I really wasn't out to dismiss a company because of one plant for one customer.

    I more or less wanted to get opinions as to whether I was out of line by simply wanting a credit based on the pictured plant. Only reason I posted this is that I was somewhat bothered by the response from the nursery.

    At the end of the day, they did credit me which is what I expected. Overall, based on all four plants, I would not order from them or recommend them in the future based on the average quality and cost of plants/shipping.

    Ark knows who they are.

    I guess I've had superior experiences with mail order companies such as Gee Farms, Conifer Kingdom, Western Evergreen, Santa Rosa, Bluestone, Blue River Nursery, Oriental Garden Supply, Dans Dwarf Conifers, Topiary Gardens and Whitman Farms compared to this one.

    Girards (for conifers)is the only company I truly had a negative experience time after time. Until they change their view on quality and service no one should even think about ordering from them.

    All others had issues at some point but where quick to resolve the issue as if they where on "my side" from the get go.

  • flora_uk
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    greenlarry - yes, you're right, they eventually go black. BTW the name's Viburnum laNtana.

  • arktrees
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    whaas,
    I thought their attitude and lame *ss excuses were familiar. In my case, I ended up hunting down local weather records off the internet to pen them with proof that what they were trying to claim did not hold up. Needless to say they didn't like me very much then.

    With that said, I hope at least the others turn out well in the end.

    Arktrees

  • greyandamy
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Wow, I lost thousands from online, but at the time I didn't have the energy or mindset to fight much. They gave me such a hard time, and such a narrow window frame... some lost photos, then I couldn't figure out how to do the photos... Some were shipped so damaged (UPS Fault?)... some got insect damage in 3 days (but trees from ORegon don't get borers I'm told).. one was oozing, the arborist was appalled... but I mostly got ... aggrevation from these companies, or critisicm I didn't notify them immediately (well, some didn't die immediately)... or criticism that I disturbed their roots AND NEVER do that... I posted a complaint on 2 watchdogs, then felt bad with one and ammended, taking the blame maybe... Another I was criticized for as I didn't notify them immediately, they never heard of me, etc... it was a tree late to break dormancy, it had damage, I thought it was just late to break dormancy.. mostly was the 16 quart size whose roots I looseneed and was severely corrected (it was my fault), "NEVER LOOSEN extremely tangled quart sized plants"...they grow out, you wouldn't believe how tight the roots are when we get them in liners"... another accused me of the "frost damaged" nyssa they almost forget to send me (last one they found) would be okay, maybe, though it's tap was broken.. Most trees arrived with bark injuries, which invited disease since some stress... the baby trees (most expensive) that liked specific soil, died... gingko, bald cypress, etc..

    One at Lazy S's promised to send replacements in August as I lost over $100, as long as I promised not to disturb roots... never happened..

    I'm reluctant to list the names on here, b/c I ordered from the "top rated", so I figured it was me... Forest farm wouldn't replace (that was like $650 total) b/c they don't get borers, and the wierd thing that my too big limber had that quickly oozed they don't get, and the dawn dwarf redwood was left in it's pot too long, I didn't tell them about the smaller guys...

    Sooner was awful, awful, awful, one was replaced after my dad took 7 photos, the other $480 plus wasn't... I got long criticisms from them though..

    Rare finds lost patience, knew I Was sick, they replaced a weeping ornamental spruce minus shipping as it arrived with bark injury that got worse... and they replaced the nyssa that was in no way fit to be shipped... I lost a few hundred from them... I didn't push enough

    Greer, tried, a beautiful dogwood got borer quickly, an EXPENSIVE blackgum was lost, a few others... they finally kindly told me it's best not to come back...

    Fairweather, I changed my mind 2 times, stated why, they got angry saying even though plant wasn't processed, each time I order they lose so much money in prep (3 months ahead?)... and not to order from them again...

    During some of these times I was undergoing chemo, or the disease which is kicking my butt (Stress exacerbates).. I couldn't fight as much as I couldn't, or was too sick... that added fuel to their fire "she doesn't know what she's doing"...

    Sooner esp. were so so so potbound, it was a sin, I don't think any were saved... the thousands I lost was a painful painful lesson...

    And what could you do, "family" watched and doc watched and wouldn't stop me, brain issues from the chemo left me unable to figure out the camera, or the energy to fight more than 30 min. on phone. REPORTING a problem within 24 hours wasn't always realistic...

    I admit I haven't checked email for 4 months, to see why lazy s's didn't replace, but they did have my phone number...

    Don't know.. some live jinxed I think... and the stress flared the disease and things got real... bad.. then...

    As for currently nursery issues- one was just bad stock... but I finally just said forget it... the severely severely rootbound things (another place) or plants that shouldn't have been sold, guarantee or not, a few I pitched when I was in so much pain and disqust and desperation... $250 maybe, a few I have in pots but I can't lug the pots easily to this place, who is quick to tell me they are okay?? or they wanted photos, then didn't, then they'd come to my house (4 times) and never showed, and currently quite ill again (So it goes) and can't really fight, though so many questions, and can't figure out the damn camera and need batteries... contorted filbert, suffering, $70,( was marked as $45) in pot... it lost 1/2 it's growth, red majestic... it wasn't planted too low... fringe tree number #1, wish I had the energy to drag it to them to say (WHAT's up with this?)... it was $80 some and ... hydrangea tree cost $70 (it should've been 45)...it was unsalvable, I didn't have energy to try to think to ... it's roots were too bad... seven sons, can't figure out why it's roots are like they are... it's in pot...

    River birch, I should've known, I refused to "Save it for them" after they promised four times to come and never showed, and it's roots were so rotted that even staked 4 times, it kept falling... I have no proof for that or hydrangea.. even though I'm a loyal customer they only go so far... how do I say "I don't have money for batteries now for photos, which you couldn't even decided you wanted"... how do you say "PLEASE HELP ME!" when people say that shouldn't be my priority...

    Most complaints from this one garden center do get scrapped, I think they lost a LOT this year from drought, whatever... the other place is better but 20 min. away and I don't have energy, and have to avoid public again for 20 days, then chemo again... they all say I know what I'm doing... I know the disease flaring and all the injuries and my beling hit from all other angles don't help, but god... please...

    amy

  • Sarabethers
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Not to hijack,but if we're talking about being a prick--can you tell me if I'm being prickish?
    I bought a tree 11 months ago and in March it started showing signs of severe borer damage. They are/were flat-head borers, and everything I've read said that the cycle takes A YEAR. I contacted the nursery and the guy basically told me it was lawn mower damage. I sent him a picture of a borer I found IN THE TREE...to which he said "Oh do this and this..good luck".
    Am I wrong to feel like he sold me a crap tree? The drought may have exacerbated issues, but frankly there are over 10 borer holes in the tree right now (without activity, so they are gone..flew away to infest another person's poor tree) and I'm starting to see signs of MORE damage. This is a 2 inch caliper tree, 240 bucks....

    Not to mention the guy denied the fact that the globe blue spruce he sold me had needle drop.

    So--am I a prick? Should I request an 'exchange' ?

  • poaky1
    11 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I think that Sarabethers, needs to make sure the tree wasn't p[lanted too deep and if it wasn't demand your money back. Greyand amy, that is alot of plants to be failing. I will just say I have ordered from Forestfarm and have only had one tree die immediately. It was a western hemlock. I ordered 2 and the other one seems okay. I haven't tried to get a refund for the dead one, as I have had good luck with every other plant I have got from them. Hemlocks have never done good for me here, I am good with the one that looks good for me. Anyhoo, all the failures you have had to deal with has to do with your soil or something. I have many plants from Forest farm ( if that is where you have gotten your plants from) and the only death I've had is the one Western Hemlock. I am close to you geographically but I am uncertain about meeting in person. You may be okay and legit, but I can't go out and work like a lumberjack either. Nobody can say for sure that someone on the net is really who they say they are. Try to p[ost photos of the problem plants. I've read your posts from other forums, I can't help but be blunt, Why don't your parents help you? I can't imagine my parents leaving me to fend for myself, having Lupis or any serious disease and not helping. Sorry, but if they are willing to help you if you move in with them,don't be stubborn, let them help you. Nothing I've said is meant to be offensive.

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